There’s a reason fake dating is one of the most beloved romance tropes. On the surface, it’s absurd: two people pretending to be in love for convenience, appearances, or survival. But underneath, it’s pure emotional gold — every pretend kiss risks turning real, every staged smile hides something genuine. We have a full episode where we break down the fake dating trope, which then turned into our FAKING IT Framework to explain what makes a fake dating novel work.

Here’s a guided tour through our favorite takes on fake dating, each with its own twist:


Contemporary Fake Dating Romance Novels (MF)

When Meg pulled together the episode & framework, she started from where she learned the trope: mostly traditionally published, straight, contemporary romance. So we’ll start our list with those, then expand out into the queer, historical, and other sub-genres.

The Love Hypothesis by Ali Hazelwood

There’s a reason this book shows up first on nearly every fake dating romance novel recommendation list … and who are we to break the streak?

This book nails all eight steps, with Agreement doing the most work: both Olive and Adam have something real on the line (social cover, withheld research funding), which is exactly the mutual-stakes test this whole framework is built around.

The Kiss Quotient by Helen Hoang

An autistic data analyst hires an escort to help her get comfortable with physical intimacy before her wedding season; he needs the money to get his mother out of medical debt.

Why we love it: About as airtight an Agreement as the framework has seen — real money on one side, real personal growth on the other, and an autistic heroine written with specificity rather than as a device. Meg’s read: “she’s trying to understand how to function in a society that isn’t built for her,” and the arrangement respects that instead of trying to fix her.

The Deal by Elle Kennedy

There’s nobody quite like Garrett Graham when it comes to “Let’s make the guy you really want notice you because everybody pays attention to me.”

Is it cocky as hell? Yes. Is it based in reality? Also yes.

Is Hannah the only one who somehow brings out the best in him? Unequivocally yes.

And don’t miss our reaction episode to Amazon Prime’s Off-Campus season one.

Not the Girl You Marry by Andie J. Christopher

A gender-swapped, modern retelling of How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days — a journalist writing a “how to lose a girl” article for his job pairs up with an event planner trying to prove to her boss she can handle weddings.

Why we love it: Meg’s direct comparison to the original: this version “worked a little better for me… especially because it’s gender-swapped.” Both leads have real professional stakes riding on the outcome, not just a bet to win — the Agreement step both hosts keep coming back to as the make-or-break test.

Making Spirits Bright by Bailey Seaborn

In this Christmas novella, Hannah was fired from her job in NYC and is now crashing at her sister’s place in Saratoga Springs, working as a bartender. On a particularly brutal shift, her ex shows up at an engagement party at the bar where she’s working, gloating about how far she’s fallen.

That is, until her sister’s roommate Connor steps in, pretending to be her boyfriend to help her save face.

This is book 2.5 in Meg’s All or Nothing series, and Nikki raved about it because she loves an operations professional as a hero. Listen to the full episode here.

Faking It by A. J. Claremont

A spicy novella from friend of the pod A.J. Claremont about a couple who does things completely out of order: starting as a fake husband, then a fake fiancé, then they finally go out of on their first date.

Listen to our episode with A.J. Claremont about the art & joy of writing novellas.

Just for the Summer by Abby Jimenez

This one is often filed under fake dating, and while we would argue that it’s less pure fake dating than a negotiated dating experiment (four dates, one required kiss)… it’s close enough to include on our list. Plus it has strong negotiations with mutual, explicit terms, and you know we love a Consent King. And a Toilet King.

Lovelight Farms by B. K. Morrison

Fake dating + reality TV + a Christmas tree farm? Sign us up!

The prose was simply beautiful, but the premise itself was a little too cozy for Meg’s taste (the Falsehood doesn’t hold up –a lie on a reality TV application that could’ve just been avoided).

But if you love a single-POV best-friends-to-lovers fake dating with tons of cozy holiday romance moments, check this one out.

Honestly, I’m Totally Faking It by Amanda Gamble

A fun, absurd inciting incident (a naked-in-a-towel mixup on a live CNN call) and a delightful read.

From a craft perspective, the Agreement is lopsided: he needs the cover, she’s just… helping a friend, with no real stakes of her own. A good example of what happens when only one side has skin in the game.

Still worth it if you love a grumpy sunshine, or if you love political campaigns (Meg’s polisci degree finally came in a smidge handy here.)


Gay Fake Dating Romance Novels (MM)

Nikki reads almost exclusively MM novels (and has brought Meg along for the ride) so her fake dating list was long & plentiful. Here are some of her favorites:

The Fake Boyfriend series by Eden Finley

This series was actually the reason we decided to do a Fake Dating month — Meg saw a five-book series called “Fake Boyfriend” and went, “What an interesting episode it would be to explore how you can do the same trope in five ways!” And Nikki (who had obviously already read them) let her down easy: The first three books are fake dating, the other two are the chaos gremlins that Eden met during the process who demanded their own stories (look at you, Talon & Jet).

So the fake dating stories are:

  • Fake Out: Maddox needs a date for his ex-girlfriend’s wedding… and the way that he broke up with her was to tell her he was gay, even though he isn’t. So he gets set up with his best friend’s brother Damon, who is studying to be a sports agent (and eventually founds King Sports, which is the connective tissue for Eden’s entire sports romance shared universe).
  • Trick Play: At the end of book #1, Maddox’s college roommate Matt gets outed as the NFL’s first gay football player. In order to sharpen his public image, his agent Damon sets up a PR relationship with their friend Noah.
  • Deke: This hockey romance features Ollie, who wants his family to get off his case about getting over his ex-boyfriend, and Lennon, a sports journalist who definitely shouldn’t be in a relationship with the hockey player whose career he’s covering.

Those are the three fake dating books in the fake boyfriend series. Listen to our episode on the Fake Boyfriend series, then check out our interview with Eden Finley about her shared hockey romance universe.

Reckless Hearts by Jax Calder

A quiet, animal-rescuing sibling gets overlooked at his own family dinner table — until his date starts asking real questions about his work and won’t let the room look past him.

This is the clearest example either host could point to of what the framework calls the Guardian step done right — not physical protection, but someone actively making you look good, and feel seen, in a room that’s forgotten to. Nikki’s verdict: “it’s a heartbreaking book. It’s so emotional, but it’s also fantastic.”

Best Man by Lily Morton

When Zeb is asked to stand up as the Best Man at his ex-boyfriend’s wedding, he asks Jesse to pose as his boyfriend so he doesn’t have to show up alone and looking heartbroken.

Meg’s single favorite fake-dating beat, full stop: the moment of running into an ex and getting to say, even just internally, I’m with someone else now. This book delivers that beat about as cleanly as it gets.

Borrowing Blue by Lucy Lennox

When Blue arrives at his sister’s vineyard wedding and bumps into his ex at the bar, he’s relieved when the guy next to him pretends to be his boyfriend to prove he’s moved on… which turns into a night together.

Too bad Tristan is not only the owner of the vineyard… but the groom’s brother.

This is Meg’s single favorite fake-dating beat (see Best Man, above) in its purest form — the ex-at-the-venue moment as the entire inciting incident, not just a scene along the way.

Boyfriend Material by Alexis Hall

Probably the most widely read MM Fake Dating book we can name,

A tabloid scandal forces Luc, son of two famous, chaotic rock musicians, into a PR-arranged relationship with a respectable barrister to salvage his charity job.

A classic image-rehabilitation Falsehood with a genuinely mismatched-on-paper couple (chaotic vs. controlled) that the framework’s Agreement step handles cleanly — both have something real to lose if the arrangement falls apart.

Heat Transfer by Katherine McIntyre

If you’re looking for fake dating with low stakes, Nikki loves this one: a client assumes Felix’s sword-fighting practice partner is his boyfriend, and the “fake” part barely survives a single chapter before it’s real.

Nikki loves it because “the pretenses are so thin… it was literally for like two hours you considered it fake, and then it wasn’t.” Proof the trope doesn’t need high stakes to work if the chemistry does the rest of the job.


Sapphic Fake Dating Romance Novels (FF)

We didn’t have any sapphic picks in the episode, but we’ve read a few so we wanted to include some great choices here!

Written in the Stars by Alexandria Bellefleur

A free-spirited astrologer and an uptight actuary fake-date through the holidays after a disastrous blind date backfires into a very awkward lie. Why it’s here: A Pride and Prejudice-inflected opposites-attract setup with real mutual stakes — Darcy needs her brother off her back, Elle needs a plausible cover — and genuinely distinct voices between the two leads.

Iris Kelly Doesn’t Date by Ashley Herring Blake

A recently-heartbroken romance author with writer’s block and an anxious actress agree to fake-date so Iris can get material for her overdue book and Stevie can get her friends to stop hovering.

Why it’s here: Lower stakes than most fake-dating premises by design — nobody’s chasing money or a promotion — which lets the emotional connection develop faster and more believably than the genre’s higher-stakes versions.

Bonus: You know that Shakespeare nerd Meg loves the gender-swapped Much Ado About Nothing.

Fly with Me by Andie Burke

An ER nurse who saves a passenger’s life mid-flight goes viral; the co-pilot who drove her the rest of the way to her race offers a fake relationship that could get airline executives to finally notice her for a promotion she’s earned.

You had me at “ER nurse runs a marathon through Disney World in honor of her dead brother’s memory.” Cue Meg’s waterworks.

Fake Dating Romance Podcast Episodes

47 | Where Absurd Meets Heartfelt: Why We Love The Fake Dating Trope

Before we dive into the specifics, let’s zoom out. What is it about fake dating that hooks us every single time? This episode breaks down the balance between comedy and sincerity that makes the trope irresistible, and includes our six-part framework for what makes a fake dating plot work.

49 | Same Trope, Three Ways: Eden Finley’s Fake Boyfriend Series

In her breakout Fake Boyfriend series, Eden Finley proves that the same trope can look wildly different in the hands of one author.

64 | Fake Dating, Real Emotions: Just For The Summer by Abby Jimenez

This isn’t just a lighthearted charade — here we see fake dating used as a lens for vulnerability, grief, and growth. When characters pretend for the world, they often reveal the truest parts of themselves to each other.

53 | All Twerk, No Play: Neighbors, Musicians & Messy Heroines

My own take on fake dating combines a grumpy/sunshine neighbors-to-lovers setup with a cinnamon-roll musician hero and an ice-queen heroine who insists she doesn’t have time for romance. Spoiler: she does. If you love messy apartments, late-night jam sessions, and “just pretend” kisses that turn into something real, this one’s for you.

72 | Elle Kennedy on Ice: “The Deal” & “Him”

Sports romance meets fake dating in a campus setting. Elle Kennedy’s The Deal and Him shows how the trope can thrive in a world of team dynamics, locker-room banter, and high-stakes college drama.

51 | Fake Dating the Hot Mess: Hothead by Stella Rhys

Sometimes the setup is less about strategy and more about sheer disaster. This one explores what happens when two messy personalities collide under the pretense of romance — and sparks fly anyway.

Grab Hothead by Stella Rhys (and if you get as annoyed by cocky alphas as we do, maybe order the paperback so you can throw it at the wall)


Why We Keep Coming Back to Fake Dating

From heartfelt vulnerability to laugh-out-loud hijinks, fake dating proves again and again that the performance of romance often reveals the real thing. Whether it’s on the ice, in the dorms, at the family holiday table, or in a courtroom divorce-gone-fake, the trope keeps reinventing itself — and keeps us hooked.