The Love Hypothesis Movie: Believe Olive! But Also? Fire Tom.

Meg and Nikki come back from a summer hiatus to dig into the film adaptation of Ali Hazelwood’s The Love Hypothesis, starring Lili Reinhart as Olive and Tom Bateman as Dr. Adam Carlson. Both hosts loved it as a movie (Nikki: 9/10) while grading it more critically as an adaptation (Nikki: 8/10) — faithful through roughly the first half, then increasingly divergent in the back third, especially around the Tom subplot and how the story resolves it.

Spoiler warning: this episode discusses the full plot of both the book and the film adaptation in detail.

In this episode:

  • What the adaptation gets right: Olive’s competence-under-nerves characterization, the negotiation scene, keeping the “fake dating” trope named on-page
  • Why cutting Adam’s book-only decision that he’s been quietly in love with Olive since the bathroom scene changes his arc
  • The missing Holden subplot, and how much narrative work a best-friend character was doing to humanize Adam
  • Casting notes on Lili Reinhart, Tom Bateman, and Rachel Marsh as Anh
  • The FAKING IT framework’s Agreement stage, and how well the negotiation-scene structure maps onto it
  • Why the film’s choice to remove the audio evidence of Tom’s misconduct weakens the third act — and why “believe her” isn’t the same as “there will be consequences”
  • What’s coming next: October’s paranormal spooky season kicks off with werewolves and wolf-shifters

Story Summary (Spoiler-Free)

The film adaptation of Ali Hazelwood’s The Love Hypothesis follows Olive, a PhD student at Stanford, who fake-dates standoffish professor Dr. Adam Carlson to convince her best friend Anh that she’s moved on and isn’t standing in the way of Anh dating Olive’s ex. What starts as a mutually beneficial arrangement — negotiated, timelined, and initially very stiff — slowly becomes real, complicated by lab politics, a predatory colleague, and two people who are both much better at hiding their feelings than showing them.

“It wasn’t arrogance, it was just a fact. Arrogance would require a level of pride… but it wasn’t. It was competence, not arrogance.” — Meg, on Adam Carlson

“What is it about Adam that Olive likes? Yes, he’s gorgeous. Yes, he’s helpful. Yes, he’s kind of funny in a snarky way. But what about him as a human makes her go, ‘I do actually wanna spend time with him’?” — Nikki

“We live in the real world where we know nothing will fucking happen to Tom… We need evidence. We need irrefutable evidence.” — Nikki, on the film’s choice to remove the audio recording of Tom’s misconduct

“The solution was in the source material, and that’s where it fell apart.” — Meg

Books & Media Referenced

  • The Love Hypothesis — Ali Hazelwood (the book this film adapts)
  • Ever After: A Cinderella Story (1998, referenced for comparison)
  • Riverdale (Lili Reinhart’s prior work)
  • The Island — Briar Prescott (Meg’s ship of the week)
  • Tracking Wolf — Lucy Lennox, Maid Marian Legacy book 4 (Nikki’s ship of the week)

Where We’ve Discussed This

What We’re Shipping This Week

  • Meg: The Island by Briar Prescott (read from Nikki’s earlier recommendation) — childhood-best-friends-to-lovers, bi awakening, stranded-on-a-desert-island survival romance
  • Nikki: Tracking Wolf by Lucy Lennox (Maid Marian Legacy book 4) — dad’s-best-friend age-gap romance with a road-trip chase

Media we mentioned:

“Newfoundland is an Island” video: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTyfMutnK/

Transcript
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fly.

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Welcome to First Dates and

Soulmates, the romance podcast

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that believes somehow old broken

contacts mean a super cute meet cute.

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I'm your host, Nikki McKnight

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Meg: And I'm Meg Casebolt, and I have worn

contacts that do not make for a meet cute.

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They just make for really itchy eyes

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Nikki: It's true.

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It's true.

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Y'all, we are back from our,

I was gonna say summer abroad.

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We were most definitely not abroad.

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We were summer away.

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No, I'm gonna just tell everybody

the narrative that no, absolutely, I

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became Emily in Paris, and I definitely

lived abroad, and I, I did espressos,

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and I was gonna say croissants, but I

don't like croissants, on a trattoria

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or a patio somewhere in Europe.

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Let's just go with that as my lore.

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That is the narrative I wanna have

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Meg: you are international

to most of our listenership

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Nikki: Very true.

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Very true.

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Hello across the border in Canada.

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Welcome to the international, uh,

destination that is, um, Canada.

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All right.

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Meg, we're back.

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Meg: In the word neighbor, so that counts.

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That counts as being international

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Nikki: There you go.

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We're like the Brits in that way.

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Uh, hi Meg, we're back

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Meg: We're back.

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I missed you

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Nikki: How was your summer?

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Meg: I did actually leave the country.

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I went on a cruise, which is why we did

the love on vacation episode where you

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ranted about how much you hate cruises.

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That was part of it.

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Nikki: It's true

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Meg: so I did go to The Bahamas.

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So I, I did have a, an international jaunt

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Nikki: Did you drink Bahama Mamas

while you were in The Bahamas?

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Meg: I did not, but I drank

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Nikki: It's disappointing.

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Okay, that's fine.

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We can go there.

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It's just-

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Meg: I did a rum tasting.

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We did seven different types of, uh,

Caribbean rum-based drinks, which

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is when my mother-in-law discovered

that she didn't like rum, and I was

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like, "Maybe you should've known that

before I paid for your rum tasting."

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But, you know, this is

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Nikki: There is that.

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There is that.

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You know, j- a quick sidebar with this.

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So I love that you talk about

Bahamas and going to the Caribbean.

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There is a trend on TikTok right now that

I'm obsessed with, and it's essentially

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the fact that, hey, you know what?

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Newfoundland, for those of you not

in the know, is a Canadian province,

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but, like, Newfoundland is an island.

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So now there's a trend of people in

Newfoundland doing, like, uh, steel drum

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music, but it's like bagpipe tunes, or

they're dancing like they're at Caribana,

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but they're in, like, fishing galoshes

and they're, they're dancing around with

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the cod, you know, from Kiss the Cod.

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They're like, 'cause

Newfoundland is an island.

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It's my new favorite thing on

TikTok, that it's Newfoundlanders

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acting like they're from the Bahamas

and Jamaica or somewhere in the

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Caribbean, and I'm enjoying it a lot.

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Meg: Love this so much.

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Make sure to put it in

the show notes and maybe I

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Nikki: Yes

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Meg: know, I'm not getting

on TikTok for this though.

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Nikki: All right.

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Well, we are back, and the thing that has

brought us out of hiatus is it's currently

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the number two movie in Canada right now.

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It was number one when it came out,

and it is the film adaptation of Ali

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Hazelwood's The Love Hypothesis, starring

and executive produced by Lily Reinhart,

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uh, as Olive and Tom Bateman as Dr.

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Adam Carlson.

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Meg, what were your overall

thoughts on this adaptation?

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Meg: There was so much to like

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Nikki: Mmm-hmm

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Meg: There were some, some choices that

they made that I did not appreciate,

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but on the whole, I think that

they did an excellent job with it.

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changed that I, you know, I kind of

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forgot about until I was kind of on

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"Oh, you know, I don't really care."

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Reinhart is fucking charming as hell.

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She's so pretty.

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did on this film, you know that she

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loves it, and Tom Bateman as Dr.

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Adam Carlson, I thought was perfect.

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Um, Aunne, Rachel Marsh as

her best friend Aune, perfect.

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a nine out of 10 as a film.

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As an adaptation, honestly, it'd

probably be like an eight out of 10,

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just because the things that they ch-

they changed, uh, that I didn't like,

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I felt were, were quite impactful.

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Meg: Very similar, where it's

like I enjoyed watching it.

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I enjoyed every minute of it.

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If I hadn't read the book, I

would have enjoyed it more.

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Nikki: Mmm-hmm.

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Meg: to watch the movie, you're

automatically making those connections.

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our book episode last week, so

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. And, and because we re-released our book

episode and have the content, I was able

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to look at the keywords of the things

that we were showing up for and before

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I watched the movie, 'cause I saw a

spike in traffic, and I was like, "Oh,

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what other questions people have about

this that we're already answering?"

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I would have loved it more

if I didn't know the book

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Nikki: I, and I honestly, I think

that can be true of most adaptations,

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'cause if, if, especially if you liked

the original source material, I think

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regardless of how well the movie is made

or not, you're still gonna be sitting

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there with an imaginary scoreboard in

your head going, "Like that change.

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Don't like that change."

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, And that's why I didn't reread the book

and I didn't re-listen to the episode.

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I thought about it, 'cause I

really wanted to see like, oh,

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you know, what did they change?

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of some things was different.

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But I'm actually really happy I didn't

do that, to just ta- take it as much

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as possible on its own merit, and then

kinda go through some of the discourse

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and be like, "Okay, who's angry?

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What are people angry about?

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What are we doing?"

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Nikki: let's-

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Meg: questions until 50%.

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Nikki: Mmm-hmm

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Meg: were very faithful through

about 50%, and then they started

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to stray, and I, I kind of just

went, "Oh, that's interesting.

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Oh, that's interesting."

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But I did really appreciate how faithful

they were to the source material

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All right, so let's, let's go through

the film because I think from the

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very first scene, I had a moment

of, "Oh, this should be kinda good."

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, We open on a blurry camera, like

someone smeared Vaseline on the lens,

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and I immediately went, "Contacts.

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The contacts are bad."

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bathroom, and all of a sudden, Dr.

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Adam Carlson comes in.

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He goes, "This is where

I dispose of things.

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You should not be in this bathroom."

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and forth, but she never sees his face.

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This was a cute opener

that I did appreciate.

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Meg: I think they did a very good job

of Olive being competent but nervous,

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Meg: and never letting Olive feel…

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but there's also a level of, like,

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I do belong here, that I thought

was very smart to start her as such

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a competent heroine, even from a

moment of, "Oh, God, I'm sweaty, I'm

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nervous, I have this big interview."

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Nikki: I love the runner of Olive and

her sweating problem because, you know,

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she's like, "Yeah, it's, this is bad."

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she's at her talk she's like,

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"Yeah, I put maxi pads in the,

in the arm holes of my jacket."

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She lifts her ha- her

arm and it's just damp.

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And they're like, "Oh,

yeah, you do sweat."

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Okay, so let's talk about Olive,

because Olive obviously is our heroine.

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Um, I really liked Lili

Reinhart in this movie.

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She's had a really

interesting acting career.

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Obviously she's most well-known for

Riverdale and being Betty, and the

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first season of that show was kind of

interesting in what they were doing, and

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then it just went fucking off the rails.

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there was alternate dimensions.

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I haven't, like, loved a lot.

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She had, like, that bit part in

Hustlers, which was kinda fun.

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She had cameos in the horrible

new Charlie's Angels remake.

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Lili Reinhart as Olive.

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I think she really tapped into Olive's

kind of just, like, innate niceness.

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Olive is, like, a nice person.

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She's not a, this, uh, not

quite the word I wanna use.

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She's not quite a problematic person.

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of Olive's awkwardness and, but at the

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same time, her spine, which I really,

really enjoyed, especially since she

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was an executive producer on the film

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actually made some decisions to strengthen

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the character of Olive, and part of that

is that in the book, it's single POV.

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It's only Olive's perception that

you get, and so you get all of her

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insecurities coming to the forefront.

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internal monologue, which I thought

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was a very smart decision, is to have

everything be spoken and not just have,

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like, voiceover, um, you have to have

that insecurity and that nervousness

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and that shyness show up in other ways.

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said, use the sweat use the nervousness,

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use the public speaking concerns, which a

lot of people have, and use An a character

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who draws her out and makes her more

comfortable and encourages her and says,

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like, "We're going to these parties.

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bringing Olive out and seeing Olive.

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Olive wants to shrink.

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Olive wants to spend her

Saturday nights in the lab.

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Olive doesn't want to go out on dates.

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She just wants to be with her mice, and

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Olive on the autism spectrum?"

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That, I don't, I don't

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One of my favorite things that Olive

does, and it's actually, like, right

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after that first scene, is when

she's walking through Stanford, and

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everybody's, like, chatting and talking.

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She's like, "Did I miss orientation?

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everybody already feels comfortable.

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This is why I had a business idea

that I called designated extroverted

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friend, that you could go to a

party, and it's almost like hiring

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an escort in a way of this person is

just gonna take you around to places.

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They're the ones who are gonna, like, walk

up to a group and start talking, say, "By

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the way, did you meet my friend Nikki?"

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Jen is my es- designated

extroverted friend.

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but I, I think sometimes when you have

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that extroverted best friend, it can

feel pushy and like you need to change,

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and I didn't get that at all from Anne,

which I love because it let Olive be

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awkward and let her be a little bit weird.

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and she's like, "I'm just gonna sit here.

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I don't wanna walk through that crowd

of people talking to each other."

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And Anne is like, "Oh, hey," like,

"you can't see anything from back here.

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Let's go."

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"Excuse me, women coming through.

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I know, women in the class, who knew?

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Look at you men everywhere."

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led in that way to contrast later than

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when she, you know, says no to things

or when she calls Adam on his shit.

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She gets to be all of these things,

which I, which I really enjoyed.

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bit more awkward though.

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I was missing a little bit

more socially awkward Olive.

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the contact lenses and the things falling

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on the floor, and then that thread sort

of went away, and it was fine that it

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went away, but it would have carried

a little bit farther as to like why

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Adam and Olive work together so well,

and why this girl who is beautiful and

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wallflower, and it's not just

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always necessarily know how

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to navigate these situations.

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speaking, but they didn't put

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that onto one-to-one engagement.

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They did have a moment where, uh, Adam

says to her like, "How come you can talk

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to me and you can't talk to anyone else?"

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social awareness of, like, other people,

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like, are developing an opinion of

me, and I know that I can't sway your

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opinion of me anyway, so why bother?

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reading as over-the-top slapstick.

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clumsy in that like, "Oh my God, I

fell over," like, "Ugh, what a girl."

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We didn't have that, which I didn't want,

because again, it looks, it reads bad

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like, maybe be more reactionary, not

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necessarily passive, but reactionary,

so that as she does these things and as

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she makes the decisions, yeah, like, she

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consequence to it, and they're not major,

but it's like, "Ooh, now I have to fix

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something," and fixing something in social

situations is extremely hard for Olive.

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hard balance, 'cause I don't want

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her to be like that clumsy, "Oh,

me, I just tripped over air, and

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aren't I such a clumsy girl?"

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a, it was a pre- it was a pretty

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have been, like, more stumbling over

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her words or struggling with how to

articulate things, but I do think that

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Lily as an actress put so much of that

into her face that you didn't always

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need the, like, scripted stumbles

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with Olive in terms of how…

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that there's a scene, I think it's right

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before they start fake da- I think it's

right before the kiss or right after.

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She's in the lab and

she's got her lab coat on.

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Nikki: pants and we wear

close-toed shoes in the lab.

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rules on how it works.

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Incorrect uniform.

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Adam Carlton, played by Tom Bateman,

who I only know as an actor, he's in the

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Kenneth Branagh Poirot movies as Bouc,

which is, um, Poirot's, like, uh, friend.

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was going through his kind of IMDb,

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um, is only being in those movies.

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He's been in some other stuff.

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I don't really know him that well.

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the tallest human in the world.

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I think that they did a really good job

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of sticking to the character of, like,

everyone's attracted to him and everyone's

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intimidated by him, and that's why he sort

of like has this bubble around him where

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his standards are so high academically

that people ignore the fact that he's hot,

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or they look at him and they know that

he's hot, but they also don't talk to him.

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And so it works that, like,

Olive doesn't see him, so she

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can't be intimidated by him.

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The first two times she interacts with

him, the first time is, you know, the

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bathroom scene, and the second time

is the water fountain scene, where

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she's just like, "I need to kiss

somebody, and I don't know who it is.

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Yes, I need a body here."

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And then, you know, she's

just like, "Okay, sorry, bye."

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Um, and they start the Title

IX runner that they didn't

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keep with, which I was a little

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Nikki: I wish they had kept it.

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That was a funny one.

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Meg: Mm-hmm.

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That was a good running…

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That was a good runner,

and, like, her pumpkin spice

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lattes, I feel like it was…

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Again, these runners from the book

that carried longer that didn't

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always carry through, but, like,

they were on the page, which I

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Nikki: Mmh.

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Meg: or on the

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Nikki: Mmh.

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Meg: guess, from the page.

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Um, but Adam as a character, um, I

thought that they did an incredible

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job with setting him up as aloof

so that he can be that, like, hard

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stick of butter that softens under

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Nikki: Yeah.

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I really enjoyed his performance

because I don't, I, I don't know

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if I can describe this correctly.

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He thought himself as better

than everyone, but he also

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thought that wasn't a big deal.

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Like, it wasn't something

he had an ego about.

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It's just like, "Yeah, of course I am.

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Like, I just go about my day like this.

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I am vastly superior to all of you

because you guys are dumb fucks."

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But, like, not in, like,

a mean, antagonistic way.

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It was just like, "This is how it is."

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Which I loved his lines

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Meg: wasn't, it wasn't

arrogance, it was just a fact.

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Arrogance would require a level

of pride and of like, "I am

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better than you," but it wasn't.

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It was just like, "Well, I would

never make that mistake, so how

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could you have made that mistake?"

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It was, it was competence, not arrogance,

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Nikki: Mmm-hmm.

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Meg: reads so differently of he can have

high expectations because he has already

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met or exceeded his own expectations,

and therefore it's not expecting

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people to do something unreasonable,

it is what he has already achieved

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Nikki: and I, when we combine

that with the fact that he likes

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to play ultimate Frisbee and

looks amazing without a shirt on.

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Like, congratulations, Daisy

Ridley, who's married to Tom

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Bateman . It's like, good job, girl.

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Uh, beautiful creature.

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Or the, like, his, he, the fact that

he's, like, pretty much always dressed in

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all black, really leaning into this Dr.

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Evil thing, but I look at that and

go, "No, he probably wears all black

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because then he doesn't have to make

decisions about what to wear that day."

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This is, like, a Steve Jobs thing.

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It just so happens to play

into this idea of he is Dr.

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Evil.

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He is a ridiculously evil

human who fires people left and

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right, who has no human empathy.

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But we do get to see some, I

wish there had been more, of

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how he changes through there.

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Like, you do get the moments of him

checking in with her after the faculty

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party that goes badly, and she's made

to speak in front of everyone, and

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he kinda, like, checks in on her.

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He does help her practice

her presentation later on.

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While she's studying, he takes away

her super fru-fru drink and gives her

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a green juice, and he brings, is it

Malcolm she's working with at the time?

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Meg: Malcolm,

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Nikki: him a coffee refill.

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Like, he does, like, these

small things throughout.

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You know, he g- he lets

her stay in the hotel room.

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Like, he does all of these

cute things which I like.

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I just wish it had been a little bit more

obvious, because this is where I'm gonna

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bring in two of the changes from the

book, one of which I wish they had kept.

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The other one, I don't mind that much.

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Number one is he's been in love with

her the whole time was not necessarily

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a factor in this story because we learn

in the book that pretty much from the

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moment they meet in the bathroom when she

can't see him, he's been aware of her and

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has kind of, like, kept an eye on her.

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But it doesn't come up that he's

kind of been, like, low-key obsessed

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with her since then, which I missed.

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The second thing is Holden, which

I actually forgot about Holden's

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character, um, so it didn't really

strike me while I was watching it that,

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that, "Oh, there's this huge gap,"

but Holden was his best friend who…

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Was it Malcolm was dating him?

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Somebody was, somebody was dating him.

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Um, and his role was kind of,

like, to, to use your words, soften

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Adam, that he's not just a dick.

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He can maintain friendships because he

doesn't really have friends in this movie.

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Like, he's got Tom, but Tom's,

doesn't live there, and obviously

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Tom is evil, as we come to discover.

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But those are…

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How do you feel about those two things,

the he's been in love with her the

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whole time and his best friend, Holden,

not being present in the adaptation?

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Meg: I missed Holden.

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I was relieved that he wasn't

in love with her the whole time.

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So the one that you wanted to

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Nikki: Mh mh.

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Mh mh.

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Meg: and letting him fall in love

with her over the course of the movie.

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And the one that you're like, "Well,

I don't know if I needed Holden,"

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that was what I missed, is Adam having

somebody to humanize him, to give

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Nikki: Mmm-hmm.

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Meg: beyond just, "Oh, we knew each other

at Harvard, and maybe we had the same

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advisor, but we didn't actually come

out and say we had the same advisor."

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Like, that was academic relationship,

but having Holden there with Malcolm, the

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double date scene, you know, like, there

was so much that Holden did to, to not

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only humanize Adam, but to give Adam more

depth to say like, "Oh, Tom's a dick."

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You know, like, having a third

party say that before Tom shows

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his cards was really helpful.

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Um, and it gave, you know…

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In this version, in the, in the

adaptation, Olive never goes to

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Adam's house, and that was where

Holden was sort of, like, bringing

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her into the fold, you know?

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And instead they did that scene

where, like, it was basically,

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like, not a frat party, but it was a

grad student party where they built

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Nikki: Rube Goldberg machine.

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I love that scene

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Meg: uh, where the…

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It was really

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Nikki: Non

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Meg: to see Adam soften up to

the grad students as a postdoc,

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but it didn't give Adam depth.

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It just gave Olive more depth, and it

was a fun scene to see him with the,

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the lemonade, but like, it didn't

advance the plot in the way that a

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Holden character would have advanced the

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Nikki: Mmh.

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Meg: to say, "Oh, you know, Adam

is a human outside of his role as a

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professor and as a, a, an academic."

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And that was never on…

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There, he had nobody on the page

that didn't know him personally

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Nikki: I, y- agreed.

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I even think of, um, I loved him in

the drunk versus high science games.

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I think my notes I wrote down,

"This is giving real theater

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kid energy, but science kids."

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'Cause if y'all have ever hung out

with theater kids, it's dangerous.

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But I, so I love the scene where he's

kind of like, one of the, one of the

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women, I think she's on, like, Team

High, she's, like, literally staring

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at a cupboard, and he's, like, watching

her, and then he, like, gives her a hint.

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And she's like, "Yeah."

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He's like, "No, stop helping them.

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Citric acid."

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Meg: Citric acid.

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Sodium

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Nikki: Or we get that, we get the,

the he's afraid of needles scene, when

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it's, like, it's time for flu shots.

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Like, we get that small moment,

but to your point, I don't think

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any of that is sufficient enough.

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Like, when I … When characters like

this fall in love, I always look and then

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go, "Okay, I get why people love her.

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But why does she love him?"

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The, the movie I always think about

with this is Ever After: A Cinderella

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Story with, uh, Drew Barrymore and

Dougray Scott as, um, the prince,

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the Prince of France or whatever.

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I get why he loves Danielle,

Drew Barrymore's character,

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'cause she's wonderful.

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Why does she like him?

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And that's w- I, I can

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You know, suspension of

disbelief in a romantic movie,

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I can do all day, every day.

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But what is it about

Adam that Olive likes?

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Yes, he's gorgeous.

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Yes, he's helpful.

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Yes, he's kind of funny in a snarky way.

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But what about him as a human

makes her go, "I do actually

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wanna spend time with him"?

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And it's not just, like, a

friendship of, "Yeah, you scratch

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my back, I'll scratch yours."

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Like, this is, like, their

fake dating relationship.

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What makes her fall in love?

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I don't think there was

enough of him not being Dr.

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Evil in a way that made sense watching it.

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Like, the needle scene

by itself is not enough.

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Engaging with her friends

is not quite enough.

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So the more, the more we talk

about this, I'm like, "Yeah, that's

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what we needed Holden for," to

be like, remind him he's a human.

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Remind everybody that, like, he,

he's not just who he is at work.

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'Cause even when they're

not at work, he's at work.

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Meg: He doesn't have a social

life outside of work once you

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lose the Holden character.

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So he, he can't be anything

but a softened version of Dr.

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Evil because he doesn't have a

role that isn't a that isn't an

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Nikki: Mmh.

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Meg: And even at the faculty

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Nikki: mmh.

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Meg: and even at the p- cocktail

party, the st- the things that are I

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would say, like, his events, doesn't

matter because he's still working.

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Nikki: Mmh mmh

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Meg: So how can you fall in

love with a person that you're

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only engaging with on campus?

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And they also missed … I just realized

they missed the scene where she has

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to sit on his lap at the lecture.

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I love that scene

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Nikki: Oof.

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:

Okay, this is, I think this is a

good segue into talking about their

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fake dating relationship in general.

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:

We've talked about some of the elements.

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Oh my God, there are so many cringe

moments that, again, they, it makes

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sense for the storyline, but the

putting on sunblock and she leaves

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it looking like angel wings on it

was funny, but everything leading

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up to that was super cringe for me.

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:

Um, when, um, making her talk out,

uh, making her talk at the party, not

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necessarily him, but, like, everybody's

like, "Talk about your work," and

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everybody's, like, shooting her down.

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:

Like, oh my God, so cringe.

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I could not watch.

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:

There is one scene that I literally

l- was laughing so hard I had to pause

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the movie, and it is their coffee date.

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Couple things happened in this scene.

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Obviously, first coffee date, and it's

like she's getting the, the so-and-so

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:

with the sprinkles, and the this, and

the this, and the this, and the this.

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And they're sitting down, and they

have, like, the department secretary

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or something sh- taking photos, and

she's just pointing it out to Adam like,

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"Yeah, that, she's not taking a selfie.

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She's taking a photo of us."

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Um, and then her friend, An and

Malcolm come in, and they're

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like, "What the fuck is going…"

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'Cause they saw the photo that the

secretary posted on social media.

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But the thing that killed me is when

Adam leaves, there's a beat, and then

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An and Malcolm, like, throw themselves

down at the table, and I just, I lost it.

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I, that is what I would have done.

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I would have been like, "Coast is clear.

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We're good."

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:

What the?

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And thr- the, the, it's the

rattling noise, the noise of them.

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:

I, I fucking lost it, and then, uh,

Olive turns to them and goes, "You

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know what you did," or something

like that to the secretary.

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Like, "Good job, Janice,"

whatever her name was.

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I loved, I laughed so fucking

hard during that scene.

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Meg: And that scene where he

did the forehead kiss where he

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Nikki: Yeah.

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Meg: like didn't know where

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Nikki: Yeah

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Meg: with her and there's so

many cringe moments throughout

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the first like I would say the

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Nikki: Mmm-hmm

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Meg: of their fake dating where it's

like they go to hug and she, like even

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when she's leaving his, um, office

for the first time and he holds the

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door open and she like goes for a hug

and then backs off and like all of

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:

the physical humor of the awkward,

cringey, two socially awkward people

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trying to navigate a fake relationship.

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But then in that moment where he knows

her friends are watching, and it's

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the first time that he really knows

her friends are watching, engages with

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it, and then he goes for the forehead

kiss after like a very awkward moment.

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Whereas later when he knows our

friends are, her friends are

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watching, he uses it to his benefit

to get a real kiss in there.

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Mm

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Nikki: Yes, he does.

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:

I, and I love that they kept, like, that

negotiation aspect of their relationship.

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:

Um, in, I don't remember how it happens

in the book, but in this one he calls

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her out of a lecture to come to his

office, and it was like, "Hello.

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We are about to have a conversation.

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We're gonna do, we're gonna do this.

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:

These are the parameters."

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:

And she's like, "What

is happening right now?"

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But then very quickly kinda

gets on board with it.

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I didn't think her desi- like,

her driving force to, to do

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this was quite strong enough.

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:

I know she was doing it for An and Jeremy,

and I know they kind of changed in the

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adaptation the An Jeremy why she's doing

this thing, which I, I don't really care.

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The way it was in the film is fine.

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I don't think it was that big of a

deal that they changed the, the MO

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behind the start of the relationship.

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But I love that he's, like, sitting

behind his desk like, "Thank

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you for coming to this meeting.

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Our agenda for today is this," and

is like, "Here are the boundaries."

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I love that they kept, like,

that negotiation aspect of it

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in it, which I really enjoyed.

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:

It was very funny

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:

Meg: that was the first part

of our faking it framework too.

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We

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Nikki: Mmm-hmm

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Meg: to build the faking it framework

of, like, if the, the premise and the…

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:

And so the A of faking it is agreement.

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:

Like, if they don't have a strong

agreement, the entire thing falls apart.

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:

And Ali Hazelwood nailed this part

of, like, we end on October 29th and

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:

this is how many weeks we have, and

then they don't go through and do the

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:

backstory or any of that stuff, so

they have the awkward moments later.

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:

But that agreement of this is how it

benefits you, this is how it benefits me,

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it has to be reciprocal, um, and we have

to come to some sort of verbal or very

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rarely contractual written agreement.

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:

Um, but there is that contract

that's happening of here's how

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you benefit, here's how I benefit.

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:

You know, we're not having sex.

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:

We're gonna see each other

on campus this many times.

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You know, are you coming

to this faculty event?

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:

And then it…

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:

the, the lines start to blur slowly,

which I love the way that they do that.

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:

Uh, but starting from that

very stiff, very, like, sitting

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across the desk from each other.

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:

Adam's posture is perfectly upright.

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:

His hands are gripping

the sides of his chair.

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:

He's just so, like, controlled in

that moment, and we talked earlier

631

:

about how in our book analysis, the

question that we asked each other

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was, like, is Olive coded autistic?

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:

But in that moment where Adam is

sitting there negotiating, I went,

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:

"Oh, are they coding Adam here?"

635

:

'Cause I didn't read Adam

as autistic in the book.

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:

Nikki: Mmh.

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:

Meg: calculating.

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:

I didn't see him as autistic.

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:

But once I saw him on screen,

I was like, "Oh, maybe he is."

640

:

And actually, that was a question

that people were googling,

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:

that our book analysis showed

up for is, is Adam autistic?

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:

They didn't ask about Olive at all, and so

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:

Nikki: Yeah

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:

Meg: a really interesting shift

and especially, you know, with

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the person who is, is playing…

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:

with, with Lily as the producer and the

primary actress and wanting and making

647

:

those shifts to make Olive a bit more, uh,

I don't wanna say strong, but a bit more

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:

of a, like, protagonist you can cheer for.

649

:

You had to have Adam then become more

aloof and awkward, and he was already

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:

aloof and awkward to begin with.

651

:

Um, so that was an interesting

choice too, is to…

652

:

especially in that particular scene

of him not being able to read the room

653

:

sometimes at first, Olive having to just

soften him through her own, like, grumpy

654

:

sunshine vibes, but also say to him, like,

"Maybe you could give people a second

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:

Nikki: Maybe

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:

Meg: Maybe you could talk to

them a little bit differently.

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:

Maybe you don't have to make people cry.

658

:

Maybe if you make them cry, it's a

sign that you're doing it wrong."

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:

Nikki: And I, that's, I think that was,

those were good demonstrations of why

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:

she starts to like him a little bit more.

661

:

Again, I, I, I wanted more of it, but

think about when, I think it's right

662

:

before the faculty party, and he goes to

her house to pick her up, and, uh, one of

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:

the women there is, like, a grad student

that he fired, and or ma- he, he made her

664

:

do something over again, and she's like,

she missed seeing her dog before she died.

665

:

And we get a callback to that moment

later where he's sitting with this

666

:

person at a coffee shop, and she's

just going through photos of her

667

:

dog, and she's just like, "Mm-hmm.

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:

Yes.

669

:

Mm-hmm.

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:

Dog."

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:

Like, that is really funny to

me, that he's ma- doing that.

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:

Or at the end, when he has a

grad student in his office crying

673

:

because she fucked up, and he said,

"Okay, next time don't do this."

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:

And she kinda goes, "Next time?

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:

I'm not getting fired."

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:

And then she starts sobbing, and then he's

like, "Oh my God, why am I doing this?"

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:

Like, I'm do- this is the what I…

678

:

This is nicer, but holy shit, I

have to deal with so many more

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:

emotions when I'm being nice.

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:

And I, I loved those changes.

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:

Um, or even when she is speaking

at the event, and she makes a

682

:

comment early on that like, "Oh,

thank God my presentation's at the

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same time as the keynote," uh, so

that means, like, nobody's gonna

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:

come to mine, which is great.

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:

Small audience.

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:

Of course, we find out later he is

the keynote, but he shows up to catch

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:

the end of her talk, and she sees his

badge and goes, "You were the keynote.

688

:

How did you get here?"

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:

He goes, "I talked fast."

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:

Like, to get here, and I just look at

that, I'm like, okay, I see, I see you are

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:

giving me evidence of why she likes him.

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:

I can see why she would wanna fuck him.

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:

But loving him, this is the right track.

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:

It needed more.

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:

This needed to be longer, but you,

you have limited screen space.

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:

You need cuts.

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:

That's why we see, um, the two of them

sitting on a bench, and they kind of,

698

:

like, cuddle, and they wave to, uh,

the guy who has to give Adam money,

699

:

and then she's like, "Okay, thank you.

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:

Bye," and, like, leaves to show

that they were just doing…

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:

I wa- I, I always want more.

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:

I always want more of this.

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:

Meg: Yeah.

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:

Nikki: We have limited real estate.

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:

Meg: more of them at the,

the sushi restaurant in

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:

Nikki: Mhm

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Meg: where there're actually just

the two of them talking to each other

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uninterrupted, and he's making fun of

her sushi choices because she loves

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:

that, like, that the food is coming

out and ca- on the little, like,

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trains, and I fucking love that, too.

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:

I love that.

712

:

You know?

713

:

But, like, the grumpy sunshine of

it all works, but also, you know,

714

:

I, I agree with you that we could

have had a little bit more of Adam

715

:

backing her up, Adam supporting her.

716

:

Not just giving her coffee, not just,

like, doing the, like, homeostasis

717

:

relationship work of, like, you know,

"Okay, I'll make sure that you're going

718

:

to bed and sleeping," or whatever,

but, like, really to her and getting

719

:

to know her and supporting her,

not just her presentation skills.

720

:

Um, it came across in the sex

721

:

Nikki: Yeah

722

:

Meg: where he's like, "I don't

want you to regret this."

723

:

There was a

724

:

Nikki: Mmm-hmm

725

:

Meg: but I think there could've been so

much more reason to fall in love with

726

:

Adam and not just to, like, like him

727

:

Nikki: that's always hard when you have

to show, like, passage of time, and you

728

:

can't have too many moments that are just

showing them how they are because then

729

:

the plot and the film loses propulsion.

730

:

It loses forward momentum when you

linger too much in just showing here's

731

:

them being cute, here's them being nice.

732

:

So it's definitely a

challenge to display that.

733

:

Um, you know, I, I, I

always, I always want more.

734

:

Meg: work

735

:

Nikki: Yeah.

736

:

Meg: where you get Adam as a kid, you

get the stories of Adam growing up, you

737

:

understand why Adam is the way that he

is, which you get a little bit in the

738

:

sushi restaurant scene, but not enough.

739

:

You don't get enough of Adam sort of loose

740

:

Nikki: Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.

741

:

I do love, um, kind of g- going in for

the, the end of the movie when we have

742

:

a lot of stuff starting to happen.

743

:

Um, I love that they played with the only

one bed trope because … And then later

744

:

when, um, Olive confesses to Anh this

whole thing was fake, that she uses the

745

:

term fake dating, and I kind of just made

a note of, yes, because these characters

746

:

ostensibly live in the real world,

they know what romantic comedies are.

747

:

They know what romance tropes are.

748

:

So the fact that Olive was like, "Oh, my

God, this is gonna turn into an only one

749

:

bed situation," or, "We were fake dating,"

like, using that term specifically I

750

:

thought really … was, was really fun.

751

:

And Adam going, "No, I booked a double.

752

:

Like, there will be two beds."

753

:

And she's like, "No, no, no, no.

754

:

You do not … S- a pipe is gonna burst.

755

:

Something's gonna happen.

756

:

There's only gonna be one bed."

757

:

And then she walks in,

she goes, "There's two."

758

:

Meg: And in, during the agreement

scene, she says, "So we're fake dating?"

759

:

Like, she

760

:

Nikki: Mm-hmm.

761

:

Meg: trope, which I really love,

because he's the one laying out all

762

:

of the contractual agreements, and

here's when it ends, and here's how

763

:

often we're gonna see each other.

764

:

And she's like, "So this is fake dating?"

765

:

Like, she names the trope, which I love

766

:

Nikki: Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.

767

:

Okay, I wanna talk about

768

:

Meg: we talk about Tom?

769

:

Nikki: I was like, we

need to talk about Tom.

770

:

Not only Tom and the fact that he's

an evil, horrific being who does not

771

:

deserve happiness, but also this is the

thing I didn't like that they changed.

772

:

Okay, t- t- tell me your thoughts

773

:

Meg: The reason that I thought the book

worked really well, especially for what

774

:

we know about Olive, is that she, in the

book, she was recording her presentation

775

:

to send it back to her advisor, Dr.

776

:

Aslan, who is a named character, and

they easily could have done this.

777

:

And then she gets the recording of

Tom sexually harassing or assaulting

778

:

Nikki: Mmh.

779

:

Meg: Well, I guess not just harassing,

but, like, making this contract clear.

780

:

It's recorded.

781

:

And Olive, being Olive, and being

not a doormat necessarily, but not

782

:

somebody who, um, who is big on conflict

resolution or, or facing conflict, she

783

:

has the, the audio recording of the

sexual harassment happening, and then An

784

:

hears it, and Malcolm hears it, and…

785

:

Or maybe it was Jeremy.

786

:

I can't remember, but one of the guys.

787

:

And they're the ones who are like,

"You have to take this to Adam.

788

:

You have to take it to the dean.

789

:

You have to do something about this."

790

:

And there's evidence.

791

:

Nikki: Yeah

792

:

Meg: The way that they change it in

the, the adaptation, and I do think

793

:

that there's a benefit to this,

is that it then becomes Olive's

794

:

word against Tom's, and there's no

evidence of him actually saying this.

795

:

And the problem then just becomes,

well, Adam believes Olive, and

796

:

therefore Tom's career is ruined,

but there's no evidence of it.

797

:

And the benefit of that is that Olive

then doesn't rely on anybody else.

798

:

She goes directly to Dr.

799

:

Aslan and says, "I need to find

another source of funding."

800

:

But they set up the other source

of funding with the two named

801

:

characters who came up on the stage

and said, "We loved your work.

802

:

I'm from Yale.

803

:

He's from," I don't know, "Dartmouth,"

804

:

Nikki: Mh.

805

:

Meg: Like, they set up the opportunity to

make the reason in the book work, and then

806

:

they just, like, dropped that scene out of

it and did it in the hotel room instead,

807

:

which, like, what kind of advisor goes

to somebody's hotel room to begin with?

808

:

- I think the entire reason for the change

was then they have time where Adam

809

:

is distant because Tom has told Adam,

"I'm going to offer her this position.

810

:

She can't be, like, stuck in this

relationship with somebody in California."

811

:

So T- so Adam goes distant

'cause he thinks he's trying to

812

:

Nikki: Yeah, 'cause,

813

:

Meg: quote,

814

:

Nikki: Tom says to him,

"I need her full focus."

815

:

Meg: Yeah.

816

:

And I just think that it was a weak

decision, that the book did it better,

817

:

and having the, the audio recorded

evidence of malfeasance or misconduct

818

:

made Olive's case stronger, and she

could have then brought that to…

819

:

She could have still

been the main character.

820

:

She could have still

taken that tape to Dr.

821

:

Aslan or somebody else and said, "Here's

why I need the alternative funding.

822

:

Here's why I need something else.

823

:

Here's why I can't work in Tom's lab."

824

:

But they just sort of like sidestepped

that, and instead they just had her

825

:

like, "Oh, I heard people talking about

me in the bathroom," and then I have

826

:

no evidence of this sexual harassment,

and everyone has to go based on the

827

:

word of an, a, a grad student instead

of a post-doc, and that's not how

828

:

Nikki: Yeah, th- that's, I- it was also

just, like, the whole setup for the event.

829

:

In the book, Olive gets that speaking gig.

830

:

She gets it.

831

:

It's not because of Tom,

it's not because of Adam.

832

:

She already has this, she's already

been given this speaking spot.

833

:

And then, you know, she goes, she does it.

834

:

The f- here's the thing, y'all.

835

:

We live in the real world as women,

and I saw a lot of people saying,

836

:

"No, it was actually really good

that all Olive had to do was…"

837

:

And it really wasn't her.

838

:

An.

839

:

She told An, An told Adam what

had happened, and Adam just

840

:

believes her and goes after Tom.

841

:

Y- that's nice.

842

:

Believe women.

843

:

We also live in the real world where we

know nothing will fucking happen to Tom.

844

:

Adam's like, "I'm gonna ruin you."

845

:

Well, we haven't seen that Adam has any

pull outside, it, we have, bec- maybe

846

:

it's because we don't have Holden,

but he doesn't have friendships.

847

:

I, how is Adam gonna ruin Tom?

848

:

How?

849

:

How is he going to do it?

850

:

What is gonna happen when

it's Olive's word and that's

851

:

it, and there's no evidence?

852

:

Nothing's fucking going to happen.

853

:

That is how this works.

854

:

So I understand they were like,

"Oh, you know, he believes her."

855

:

I'm like, "Yeah, and

nobody's gonna give a shit."

856

:

Like, this is not going to work.

857

:

We need evidence.

858

:

We need irrefutable evidence.

859

:

And then honestly, probably some

shit's still not gonna happen.

860

:

Are you up on the news right now, Cornell?

861

:

Like, it's just, mm

862

:

Meg: meanwhile, I'm like, it- when

Tom's in her hotel room, I'm like, "Let

863

:

her have her phone on and have Adam

864

:

Nikki: Something

865

:

Meg: when, uh, there's a

moment where Olive goes to An,

866

:

and this pissed me off too.

867

:

Olive goes to An and says, "I

was sexually harassed by Tom.

868

:

I can't be there."

869

:

And b- right before that,

they kick out whatever the

870

:

Nikki: the, the little running

joke, just shut up, dude.

871

:

I remember his name, man

872

:

Meg: Yeah, exactly.

873

:

They kick him out, and he goes, "You can't

874

:

Nikki: McConnell?

875

:

Meg: I'm in the middle

of recording my data."

876

:

And I was like, please

let him be recording this.

877

:

Like, that could have been some

sort of, like, secondhand, even if

878

:

it's not, you know, it would still

be Olive's word and Olive's thing.

879

:

But then An just goes like,

"Oh, you're my best friend.

880

:

I knew you were lying."

881

:

Like, and just for probably two minutes

they talk about that instead of like,

882

:

"Hi, you were sexually harassed by a

superior, and you, like, don't have

883

:

a place to work, and now we're just

gonna talk about how I knew, and

884

:

you guys were awkward, and it was

885

:

Nikki: Yeah.

886

:

Meg: And I was like, this

887

:

Nikki: Who also, who also threatened

to steal her methodologies, and

888

:

her frameworks, and her research.

889

:

Um, so like this is

ruinous for, for Olive.

890

:

So I didn't, I didn't love that, how

they set it up, because o- one, I don't

891

:

believe anything would happen to Tom.

892

:

Two, the other change that they

made is the reason that Olive

893

:

had to go find funding is Dr.

894

:

Aslan's retiring, so

she was not an option.

895

:

So for her to just go back to Dr.

896

:

Aslan, I'm like, "Why wouldn't

you have gone there first?"

897

:

Like, I know you're at,

you're already at Stanford.

898

:

Like, I know you needed more money

and things, but j- it's, isn't it

899

:

like your safety school in a way?

900

:

Like, wouldn't you have put in an

application with her regardless of if you

901

:

wanted to go to Harvard or, or wherever?

902

:

I don't know.

903

:

I, I didn't love this.

904

:

B- and all it really gave the opportunity

was for Adam to go after Tom and have

905

:

that, "If you t- go near her, I'll fucking

kill you," and I was like, "Who cares?"

906

:

Like that, uh … And then they

immediately reconcile outside of

907

:

that when, because people in the

classroom start live streaming this,

908

:

but they didn't catch any of what the

accusation was, so still people don't

909

:

know that Tom is, uh, is the devil.

910

:

Um, they just see Adam going off on

Tom, and they're like, "Ooh, look at Dr.

911

:

Evil."

912

:

But they don't know why, 'cause

he doesn't say any of that.

913

:

He just says like, "I, Olive told me,"

or, "I heard what you did to Olive,"

914

:

and then people start recording, so

none of that is caught on camera.

915

:

The, the, the student body widely

doesn't know, but then Olive shows up

916

:

at the end in the hallway, and that's

their big reconciliation moment.

917

:

It just f- it felt really flat.

918

:

Like this section either made me

angry or it felt flat, and then

919

:

same thing with the flash forward.

920

:

It just kind of like, it felt like

we were building towards something,

921

:

and then it just kinda went

922

:

It really petered out.

923

:

Meg: petered out.

924

:

Nikki: Yeah.

925

:

Meg: And it

926

:

Nikki: I, okay

927

:

Meg: to peter out, I would say,

like, th- after the sushi scene.

928

:

Nikki: Yeah, and like,

929

:

Meg: sort of

930

:

Nikki: y-

931

:

Meg: lost its momentum

932

:

Nikki: yeah, and I don't love that,

like, An was the one that told Adam,

933

:

and she's like, "And, and, and,

and Olive told me not to tell you."

934

:

Um, the reconciliation is too quick.

935

:

Um, and it, I, she didn't even tell Dr.

936

:

Aslan.

937

:

Like, I know Dr.

938

:

Aslan has a line of like, w- uh, "We

have to be perfect, we have to do much,"

939

:

but it's like, why didn't she tell Dr.

940

:

Aslan and get Dr.

941

:

Aslan on her side?

942

:

Like, I don't know.

943

:

The, how this was handled, I just don't

have trust in the system, again, have

944

:

you seen what's happening at Cornell?

945

:

Um, that any of this would be

handled correctly, that there

946

:

would be any consequences for Tom.

947

:

Um, like, good for her,

she stays at Stanford.

948

:

She, you know, we flash-forward to,

I think it's two years later, where

949

:

she has her doctorate, and she's

teaching, and An is teaching, and

950

:

she and Adam are still together.

951

:

Like, it's cute, that little moment

of, like, they're, they touch each

952

:

other's hands as they walk by.

953

:

But it's like, Tom needed consequences.

954

:

Fuck Tom.

955

:

Meg: Yeah.

956

:

Yeah.

957

:

They didn't ha- they didn't ever

address like, "Oh, I'm so glad you

958

:

never went to Harvard 'cause that

lab got shut down once Tom was…"

959

:

Once…

960

:

And here's the…

961

:

This could've been once other people

came forward and said that that same

962

:

Nikki: Yeah

963

:

Meg: could've been a one-sentence

thing off the page that just like,

964

:

"I'm so glad that you're here

at Stanford because Harvard was

965

:

caught in that terrible, uh, you

966

:

Nikki: Sex scandal and like

to- uh, yeah, something.

967

:

Something.

968

:

Yeah, that would've been

a good way to do it.

969

:

Meg: But there

970

:

Nikki: Mm-hmm.

971

:

Meg: There was no conclusion to that.

972

:

It was just like, "Well, Adam and Tom

aren't friends anymore, and now Olive

973

:

Nikki: Mh.

974

:

Meg: and she finished,

and everything's great."

975

:

Um, and we don't know if

her research worked, or we

976

:

don't, we don't know anything.

977

:

We have no conclusion except,

"Oh, they said I love you,

978

:

so now everything's fine."

979

:

Nikki: Yeah, 'cause really from

980

:

Meg: like, five more minutes.

981

:

I…

982

:

And I think that the, the I love you

confession, I think they were trying

983

:

to do something about, like, oh, this

is a tier one mistake or a tier two

984

:

mistake, but that language had not been

introduced at any point before that.

985

:

Like, even if, even if, um, Adam had said

during that scene with the person who

986

:

messed up and put Mountain Dew on their

slides, he was like, "That was a tier

987

:

one mistake," he could have, like, he

could have dropped the language earlier

988

:

so that way later on when they pick

it up, it's not completely brand-new

989

:

territory that they're covering.

990

:

Because now they're just like, "Oh,

we're cute, awkward scientists talking

991

:

in science terminology to each other when

we're trying to say I love you," but,

992

:

like, there was nothing underneath that

993

:

Nikki: From Olive's perspective, they

had sex, she fell asleep, she woke

994

:

up, he was gone, and there was hearts

made out of M&M's next to her, and

995

:

then he never talked to her again.

996

:

And then she immediately got

sexual har- uh, sexually harassed

997

:

by, by Tom, and threatened, um,

with essentially sexual violence.

998

:

Um, not a great thing

from her perspective.

999

:

Um, and I know she sees him

afterwards, he goes, "Congratulations.

::

I heard it went well.

::

It's, I got my grant money today.

::

Thank you so much."

::

And

::

why are we forgiving him

for any of this shit?

::

Yeah.

::

Like again, you know, I love the movie.

::

This aspect of it, it didn't

completely turn me off from the

::

film, but when I stopped to think

about it, it really bothered me.

::

Meg: the solution was in the source

material, they chose that moment to

::

diverge, and that's where it fell apart

::

Nikki: Mm-hmm.,

::

There's just a couple other

moments that I had in my notes

::

that I thought were really fun.

::

How he picked her up coming back from

the sushi restaurant, like that one

::

arm swoop up and carry, oh, yes please.

::

I looked it up.

::

There, there's, there's on paper, 'cause

you know people fudge their height

::

a little bit, there's an eight-inch

height difference between the two.

::

It feels bigger than eight inches.

::

Mm-mm-mm-mm.

::

Uh, but that, that one, that

one arm swoop, I loved it.

::

Um, I-

::

Meg: I, I, that looks, felt about right.

::

Eight in- like, that's what

Ben and I have is, is eight

::

Nikki: Can he do a one-arm swoop on you?

::

Meg: 6'4".

::

No, but I'm also a bigger person than,

::

Nikki: Ben, get working on it.

::

Uh, flex those biceps.

::

Uh, I didn't love that Adam got the

mediocre white man line where Dr.

::

Aslan had that in the original,

but it was still kind of funny.

::

I, I wish the, her realizing it

was him in the bathroom had, like,

::

a little bit more oomph behind it.

::

Um, but this, it doesn't work

then if you don't have the he was

::

in love with her the whole time.

::

Meg: No, I would say the, the bathroom

scene, I was annoyed in the book

::

that it had as much weight as it did,

'cause I didn't think it was really

::

all that exciting or important.

::

I didn't think that it was as big of

a, like, formative moment in their

::

relationship as the book made it seem.

::

So I didn't mind that it came out

earlier and she was just like, "Oh,

::

you believed in me this whole time."

::

That was the entire point of

::

Nikki: Yeah, and if they don't have the

he's been in love with her the whole time,

::

then you don't really need that scene.

::

Um, and then, , I didn't like Malcolm.

::

He was a real dick in this movie.

::

I feel like they made him more

of, like a, like a, an antagonist

::

for the, up until we meet Tom.

::

Not a fan of how Malcolm was written.

::

He was a dick and he was mean.

::

He was mean to Olive.

::

Meg: Mhm

::

Nikki: thing is he's the one that

specifically says the word demisexual

::

early on in the film, and everybody's

like, "Oh, they actually said the

::

word demi, like, groundbreaking."

::

I was like, meh, it felt

awkward and tacked on, and

::

also way too early in the film.

::

Meg: Mhm

::

Nikki: yeah, I think that's, I

think that's the rest of my list

::

Meg: And I think part of the reason

that Malcolm didn't come across as

::

warm or likable in this adaptation as

he does in the book is missing Holden

::

Nikki: true.

::

We just see him as like a fuckboy

::

Meg: a and we were able to see that

tension of, oh, the, you know, my roommate

::

is dating my, dissertation advisor, and my

boyfriend is friends with my dissertation

::

advisor, and I don't like him, but I

like them, so I'll put up with him,

::

you kinda got more from Malcolm out of

::

Nikki: Mmm-hmm.

::

Meg: versus the adaptation version

is just like, "Well, I like to

::

party 'cause I don't really wanna be

::

Nikki: Yeah

::

Meg: your boyfriend's mean to

me, and you should have made

::

him stop being mean to me."

::

And he's just sort of like the,

promiscuous gay character versus,

::

like, having a relationship that

he can be in where you can see him

::

engaging with somebody who isn't Olive

::

Nikki: Agreed.

::

Agreed.

::

Overall, I'm a fan.

::

I would watch it again

::

Meg: So Nikki, what do you ship the

most about The Love Hypothesis movie?

::

Nikki: It's the casting of

Lili Reinhart and Tom Bateman.

::

I think they both did a fantastic job.

::

I felt like they were really good

representations of the characters.

::

I thought they had n- really

nice on-screen chemistry that was

::

both grounded and a little silly.

::

This is fake dating.

::

It's gotta be a little silly.

::

Um, and it's funny when you think about

the Daisy Ridley-Tom Bateman connection.

::

For those of you who don't know or haven't

listened to the book, Love Hypothesis

::

started as Reylo, Rey and Kylo Ren fanfic.

::

Tom Bateman, who plays Adam,

is married to Daisy Ridley, who

::

is the actress who played Rey.

::

Um, and they maintain they had no

idea about it, and Lili Reinhart

::

has said, "Yeah, no, Daisy and

Tom had no idea this was a thing.

::

It's just chance."

::

Uh, but yeah, I'd say Lili

Reinhart and, um, Tom Bateman.

::

I really enjoyed the two of them.

::

What about you?

::

What did you ship the most?

::

Meg: I think I shipped

the character of Anh

::

Nikki: Hmm.

::

Meg: this whole thing wouldn't

work if she weren't so likable.

::

Like, Olive wanting Anh to be happy

and wanting to sort of, I don't wanna

::

say self-sacrifice 'cause that's not

it, but Olive subverting her own needs

::

in order to make Anh happy because

Anh had been the best friend that

::

she could imagine and she, you know,

that whole thing wouldn't have worked

::

if Anh weren't a great character.

::

And also just the actress who

played her was so perfect.

::

played everything so well where it

was, you know, the moments where she

::

had to be warm and friendly and best

friendy she could, but then there were

::

also the moments where she was, like,

pushing them towards the cringe 'cause

::

you, you knew as the watcher, even if

you hadn't read the book, that Anh knew

::

what was going on or else she wouldn't

have been like, "Ooh, sunscreen.

::

Your hot dog's gone.

::

You got, you gotta just

put on the sunscreen.

::

Go touch him.

::

Go touch him."

::

You know, like, Anh.

::

And then the protectiveness near the end

of it where Anh is the one who's, like,

::

going to Adam, even if I didn't agree

with that screenplay choice, the character

::

had a, an edge to her that I really

loved, and that actress, which I'm sure

::

you named her at some point in this and

I feel like an asshole for not knowing

::

Nikki: Rachel Marsh.

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Meg: She was just incredible.

::

Nikki: Yeah, I agree.

::

I agree.

::

She was great.

::

Amazing.

::

All right, well, before we get into

the final question of what we are

::

shipping this week, a gentle reminder,

you know the number one thing you

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can do for us, head on over to your

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Be sure to subscribe, as it tells the

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cool and people should wanna hang out

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somebody at the cafeteria lunch table.

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And what is podcasting if not

finding people to sit with you

::

at the cafeteria lunch table?

::

Uh, Meg, checking back in.

::

It's been a couple months.

::

What are you shipping this week?

::

Meg: Well, that's the problem.

::

It's been a couple months, and I

can't remember where I left off

::

in the books that I've read, and

I've read so many fucking books.

::

Okay, so I'm just going off the top of my

head, which is that, uh, there's a book

::

that you shipped, like a year ago, that

I finally got around to reading, and it

::

blew my mind, so it's a double shipper.

::

Nikki: Hit it

::

Meg: And I'm going to, uh, give you

some hints and see if you can figure out

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Nikki: Oh, God.

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Okay

::

Meg: childhood best friends to

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Nikki: Mm-hmm.

::

Meg: bi awakening,

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Nikki: I'm just not narrowing it down.

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Meg: on vacation.

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Bi awakening.

::

I know.

::

I'm, like,

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Nikki: Honeymoon For One, Keira Andrews

::

, Meg: Plane crash

::

Nikki: Oh, oh, Briar Prescott.

::

The, the, uh, the Island.

::

Meg: by Maria

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Nikki: Oh my God, stressful

fucking movie, or stressful fucking

::

book, but a great fucking book

::

Meg: Oh my God, it destroyed

::

Nikki: God

::

Meg: So I just, sidebar to everyone who,

I mean, I, you're probably not looking at

::

our website regularly even though I am, I

::

Nikki: Mmm-hmm

::

Meg: building out these templates for,

um, different books that we've read and

::

appreciated, and one of the things that

I did was give a scale from like this

::

is marshmallows, this is no angst, up to

like this is going to send you to therapy.

::

Nikki: Mmh.

::

Meg: The Island by Bryon

Prescott is like therapy fodder.

::

It

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Nikki: Oh my God, yeah.

::

I needed a moment

::

Meg: is, oh my, it is so emotional , i

don't wanna give away too much, but the

::

entire thing is one of the most gorgeous,

and I understand why Nikki recommended it

::

because it's so much pining and so much

yearning the way that a childhood best

::

friends to lovers by awakening can be.

::

Um, it's just structurally perfect.

::

It's an amazing book.

::

Go check out The Island by Briar Prescott.

::

Double ship.

::

Double

::

Nikki: Yeah, and definitely

have, like, a recovery piece

::

planned for after reading that.

::

You are gonna need the

schmoopiest, frothiest,

::

Meg: Like

::

Nikki: oh my God, uh

::

Meg: like a cozy novella for right

afterwards so that way you can

::

just like get the tears out of your

system somehow because ooh, is it a

::

Nikki: Yeah, it really is

::

Meg: Nikki,

::

Nikki: Oh my gosh, I had to go back

through my list, and I was like,

::

"Which one do I wanna start with?"

::

I'm gonna say,

::

Meg: it's

::

Nikki: I'm gonna say, I'm gonna

pick Tracking Wolf by Lucy Lennox,

::

which is the latest book in

the Maid Marian Legacy series.

::

It is a dad's best friend to

lovers, y- yearning, pining.

::

Wolf has grown up being the son

of Jude from Dune the Sands, and

::

like, it, you know, big musician,

and you find out that he has, uh…

::

Okay, g- spoilers for the book.

::

Um, you find out he's actually a

Grammy-winning songwriter, and nobody

::

in his family knows, 'cause he's

doing it under an alias, and he's

::

trying to keep this for himself.

::

But he's also been in love with

his, um, the bodyguard dad's, like,

::

best friend who works at the agency

with him sometimes, named Trace.

::

He's been in love with

him his entire childhood.

::

They kiss at some point once Wolf is,

like, 18 or 19, and Trace is like, "This

::

will never happen," um, and a bunch of

other stuff happens that essentially

::

what happens is Wolf says, "I'm out."

::

So he goes on, like, a

road trip, essentially.

::

He gets, like, an RV, and he doesn't

tell anybody where he's going, and

::

his parents obviously get worried,

so they send Trace after him.

::

So Trace has to, like, literally track

him down across the United States,

::

and drama, drama, drama and it's about

how do they kind of get together.

::

So again, yearning and pining, which is

my bread and butter, um, and, uh, you

::

know, age gap, secret identity, road

trip romance, a little bit of danger,

::

a little bit of suspense on the way.

::

10 out of 10 recommend.

::

Uh, Tracking Wolf, Lucy Lennox,

Maid Marian Legacy, book four.

::

Meg: Is Maid Marian, Marian

Legacy the, like, generation after

::

the Maid Marian group finishes?

::

Nikki: It's their kids.

::

Yep.

::

It's all their kids.

::

Meg: it

::

Nikki: Uh, beautiful, and

that is it for us this week.

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Nikki McKnight (she/her) reads 800+ romance novels a year. By day, an operations strategist; by night, a queer romance devotee with pop culture connections that somehow always apply. She’s the hype woman — and the one who’ll tell you, calmly and with citations, when a film has failed its female characters.
Top tropes: grumpy x sunshine, bi-awakening with best friends, enemies to lovers

Meg Casebolt (she/her) writes romance as Bailey Seaborn and runs Love At First Search, an AI discoverability strategy firm. She brings the craft lens — story structure, trope mechanics, and a forensic interest in why a slow burn needs exactly 300 pages to earn its payoff. She built a seven-part fake dating framework while waiting in line at Disneyland.
Top tropes: waking up married, second chance, black cat/golden retriever

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