Meg and Nikki come back from a summer hiatus to dig into the film adaptation of Ali Hazelwood’s The Love Hypothesis, starring Lili Reinhart as Olive and Tom Bateman as Dr. Adam Carlson. Both hosts loved it as a movie (Nikki: 9/10) while grading it more critically as an adaptation (Nikki: 8/10) — faithful through roughly the first half, then increasingly divergent in the back third, especially around the Tom subplot and how the story resolves it.
Spoiler warning: this episode discusses the full plot of both the book and the film adaptation in detail.
In this episode:
- What the adaptation gets right: Olive’s competence-under-nerves characterization, the negotiation scene, keeping the “fake dating” trope named on-page
- Why cutting Adam’s book-only decision that he’s been quietly in love with Olive since the bathroom scene changes his arc
- The missing Holden subplot, and how much narrative work a best-friend character was doing to humanize Adam
- Casting notes on Lili Reinhart, Tom Bateman, and Rachel Marsh as Anh
- The FAKING IT framework’s Agreement stage, and how well the negotiation-scene structure maps onto it
- Why the film’s choice to remove the audio evidence of Tom’s misconduct weakens the third act — and why “believe her” isn’t the same as “there will be consequences”
- What’s coming next: October’s paranormal spooky season kicks off with werewolves and wolf-shifters
Story Summary (Spoiler-Free)
The film adaptation of Ali Hazelwood’s The Love Hypothesis follows Olive, a PhD student at Stanford, who fake-dates standoffish professor Dr. Adam Carlson to convince her best friend Anh that she’s moved on and isn’t standing in the way of Anh dating Olive’s ex. What starts as a mutually beneficial arrangement — negotiated, timelined, and initially very stiff — slowly becomes real, complicated by lab politics, a predatory colleague, and two people who are both much better at hiding their feelings than showing them.
“It wasn’t arrogance, it was just a fact. Arrogance would require a level of pride… but it wasn’t. It was competence, not arrogance.” — Meg, on Adam Carlson
“What is it about Adam that Olive likes? Yes, he’s gorgeous. Yes, he’s helpful. Yes, he’s kind of funny in a snarky way. But what about him as a human makes her go, ‘I do actually wanna spend time with him’?” — Nikki
“We live in the real world where we know nothing will fucking happen to Tom… We need evidence. We need irrefutable evidence.” — Nikki, on the film’s choice to remove the audio recording of Tom’s misconduct
“The solution was in the source material, and that’s where it fell apart.” — Meg
Books & Media Referenced
- The Love Hypothesis — Ali Hazelwood (the book this film adapts)
- Ever After: A Cinderella Story (1998, referenced for comparison)
- Riverdale (Lili Reinhart’s prior work)
- The Island — Briar Prescott (Meg’s ship of the week)
- Tracking Wolf — Lucy Lennox, Maid Marian Legacy book 4 (Nikki’s ship of the week)
Where We’ve Discussed This
- Our original Love Hypothesis book episode
- Full book review: The Love Hypothesis — book review
- The FAKING IT Framework
- Our favorite Fake Dating Romance Books
What We’re Shipping This Week
- Meg: The Island by Briar Prescott (read from Nikki’s earlier recommendation) — childhood-best-friends-to-lovers, bi awakening, stranded-on-a-desert-island survival romance
- Nikki: Tracking Wolf by Lucy Lennox (Maid Marian Legacy book 4) — dad’s-best-friend age-gap romance with a road-trip chase
Media we mentioned:
“Newfoundland is an Island” video: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTyfMutnK/
Transcript
fly.
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:Welcome to First Dates and
Soulmates, the romance podcast
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:that believes somehow old broken
contacts mean a super cute meet cute.
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:I'm your host, Nikki McKnight
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:Meg: And I'm Meg Casebolt, and I have worn
contacts that do not make for a meet cute.
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:They just make for really itchy eyes
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:Nikki: It's true.
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:It's true.
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:Y'all, we are back from our,
I was gonna say summer abroad.
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:We were most definitely not abroad.
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:We were summer away.
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:No, I'm gonna just tell everybody
the narrative that no, absolutely, I
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:became Emily in Paris, and I definitely
lived abroad, and I, I did espressos,
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:and I was gonna say croissants, but I
don't like croissants, on a trattoria
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:or a patio somewhere in Europe.
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:Let's just go with that as my lore.
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:That is the narrative I wanna have
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:Meg: you are international
to most of our listenership
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:Nikki: Very true.
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:Very true.
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:Hello across the border in Canada.
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:Welcome to the international, uh,
destination that is, um, Canada.
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:All right.
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:Meg, we're back.
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:Meg: In the word neighbor, so that counts.
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:That counts as being international
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:Nikki: There you go.
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:We're like the Brits in that way.
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:Uh, hi Meg, we're back
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:Meg: We're back.
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:I missed you
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:Nikki: How was your summer?
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:Meg: I did actually leave the country.
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:I went on a cruise, which is why we did
the love on vacation episode where you
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:ranted about how much you hate cruises.
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:That was part of it.
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:Nikki: It's true
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:Meg: so I did go to The Bahamas.
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:So I, I did have a, an international jaunt
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:Nikki: Did you drink Bahama Mamas
while you were in The Bahamas?
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:Meg: I did not, but I drank
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:Nikki: It's disappointing.
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:Okay, that's fine.
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:We can go there.
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:It's just-
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:Meg: I did a rum tasting.
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:We did seven different types of, uh,
Caribbean rum-based drinks, which
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:is when my mother-in-law discovered
that she didn't like rum, and I was
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:like, "Maybe you should've known that
before I paid for your rum tasting."
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:But, you know, this is
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:Nikki: There is that.
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:There is that.
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:You know, j- a quick sidebar with this.
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:So I love that you talk about
Bahamas and going to the Caribbean.
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:There is a trend on TikTok right now that
I'm obsessed with, and it's essentially
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:the fact that, hey, you know what?
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:Newfoundland, for those of you not
in the know, is a Canadian province,
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:but, like, Newfoundland is an island.
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:So now there's a trend of people in
Newfoundland doing, like, uh, steel drum
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:music, but it's like bagpipe tunes, or
they're dancing like they're at Caribana,
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:but they're in, like, fishing galoshes
and they're, they're dancing around with
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:the cod, you know, from Kiss the Cod.
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:They're like, 'cause
Newfoundland is an island.
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:It's my new favorite thing on
TikTok, that it's Newfoundlanders
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:acting like they're from the Bahamas
and Jamaica or somewhere in the
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:Caribbean, and I'm enjoying it a lot.
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:Meg: Love this so much.
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:Make sure to put it in
the show notes and maybe I
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:Nikki: Yes
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:Meg: know, I'm not getting
on TikTok for this though.
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:Nikki: All right.
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:Well, we are back, and the thing that has
brought us out of hiatus is it's currently
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:the number two movie in Canada right now.
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:It was number one when it came out,
and it is the film adaptation of Ali
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:Hazelwood's The Love Hypothesis, starring
and executive produced by Lily Reinhart,
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:uh, as Olive and Tom Bateman as Dr.
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:Adam Carlson.
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:Meg, what were your overall
thoughts on this adaptation?
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:Meg: There was so much to like
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:Nikki: Mmm-hmm
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:Meg: There were some, some choices that
they made that I did not appreciate,
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:but on the whole, I think that
they did an excellent job with it.
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:. Nikki: Would give it a nine out of 10.
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:Um, there are some things that they
changed that I, you know, I kind of
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:forgot about until I was kind of on
Threads afterwards, and I was like,
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:"Oh, you know, I don't really care."
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:There's only, like, one or two things
I wish they had kept like the book.
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:But overall, I was like, Lily
Reinhart is fucking charming as hell.
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:She's so pretty.
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:To hear her talk about the work they
did on this film, you know that she
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:loves it, and Tom Bateman as Dr.
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:Adam Carlson, I thought was perfect.
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:Um, Aunne, Rachel Marsh as
her best friend Aune, perfect.
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:Uh, so overall, I'm giving it
a nine out of 10 as a film.
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:As an adaptation, honestly, it'd
probably be like an eight out of 10,
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:just because the things that they ch-
they changed, uh, that I didn't like,
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:I felt were, were quite impactful.
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:Meg: Very similar, where it's
like I enjoyed watching it.
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:I enjoyed every minute of it.
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:If I hadn't read the book, I
would have enjoyed it more.
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:But, you know, as soon as you've read the
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:Nikki: Mmm-hmm.
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:Meg: to watch the movie, you're
automatically making those connections.
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:And, you know, we just re-released
our book episode last week, so
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:I was listening back to that
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:. And, and because we re-released our book
episode and have the content, I was able
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:to look at the keywords of the things
that we were showing up for and before
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:I watched the movie, 'cause I saw a
spike in traffic, and I was like, "Oh,
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:what other questions people have about
this that we're already answering?"
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:But, um, I loved, uh, I loved the movie.
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:I would have loved it more
if I didn't know the book
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:Nikki: I, and I honestly, I think
that can be true of most adaptations,
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:'cause if, if, especially if you liked
the original source material, I think
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:regardless of how well the movie is made
or not, you're still gonna be sitting
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:there with an imaginary scoreboard in
your head going, "Like that change.
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:, And that's why I didn't reread the book
and I didn't re-listen to the episode.
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:I thought about it, 'cause I
really wanted to see like, oh,
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:'Cause I felt like the order
of some things was different.
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:But I'm actually really happy I didn't
do that, to just ta- take it as much
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:as possible on its own merit, and then
kinda go through some of the discourse
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:and be like, "Okay, who's angry?
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:What are people angry about?
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:What are we doing?"
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:And just kind of go through it that way.
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:Meg: I didn't have
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:Nikki: let's-
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:Meg: questions until 50%.
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:I was
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:Nikki: Mmm-hmm
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:Meg: were very faithful through
about 50%, and then they started
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:to stray, and I, I kind of just
went, "Oh, that's interesting.
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:Oh, that's interesting."
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:But I did really appreciate how faithful
they were to the source material
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:Nikki: Yes.
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:All right, so let's, let's go through
the film because I think from the
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:very first scene, I had a moment
of, "Oh, this should be kinda good."
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:And it is two years before the main story.
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:, We open on a blurry camera, like
someone smeared Vaseline on the lens,
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:and I immediately went, "Contacts.
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:The contacts are bad."
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:And you've got Olive in the
bathroom, and all of a sudden, Dr.
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:Adam Carlson comes in.
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:He goes, "This is where
I dispose of things.
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:You should not be in this bathroom."
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:And they have a little bit of a back
and forth, but she never sees his face.
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:This was a cute opener
that I did appreciate.
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:Meg: I think they did a very good job
of Olive being competent but nervous,
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:Nikki: Yes
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:Meg: and never letting Olive feel…
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:There's, there's some insecurity,
but there's also a level of, like,
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:I do belong here, that I thought
was very smart to start her as such
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:a competent heroine, even from a
moment of, "Oh, God, I'm sweaty, I'm
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:Nikki: I love the runner of Olive and
her sweating problem because, you know,
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:she's like, "Yeah, it's, this is bad."
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:And then, you know, later on when
she's at her talk she's like,
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:"Yeah, I put maxi pads in the,
in the arm holes of my jacket."
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:Or she's like, "Oh, I sweat."
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:She lifts her ha- her
arm and it's just damp.
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:And they're like, "Oh,
yeah, you do sweat."
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:Okay, so let's talk about Olive,
because Olive obviously is our heroine.
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:Um, I really liked Lili
Reinhart in this movie.
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:She's had a really
interesting acting career.
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:Obviously she's most well-known for
Riverdale and being Betty, and the
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:first season of that show was kind of
interesting in what they were doing, and
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there was alternate dimensions.
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:Shit got weird on Riverdale, y'all.
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:And, like, some of her films
I haven't, like, loved a lot.
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:She had, like, that bit part in
Hustlers, which was kinda fun.
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:She had cameos in the horrible
new Charlie's Angels remake.
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:But I really enjoyed
Lili Reinhart as Olive.
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:I think she really tapped into Olive's
kind of just, like, innate niceness.
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:Olive is, like, a nice person.
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:She's not a, this, uh, not
quite the word I wanna use.
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:But she also didn't lose that combination
of Olive's awkwardness and, but at the
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:same time, her spine, which I really,
really enjoyed, especially since she
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:was an executive producer on the film
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:Meg: Yeah, I li- I think that they were
actually made some decisions to strengthen
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:the character of Olive, and part of that
is that in the book, it's single POV.
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:It's only Olive's perception that
you get, and so you get all of her
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:And when you take out any sort of
internal monologue, which I thought
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everything be spoken and not just have,
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:like, voiceover, um, you have to have
that insecurity and that nervousness
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:And so they made the choice to, like you
said, use the sweat use the nervousness,
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:use the public speaking concerns, which a
lot of people have, and use An a character
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:who draws her out and makes her more
comfortable and encourages her and says,
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:Like, An is not really a crutch,
but, like, she's the one who keeps
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:Olive wants to shrink.
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:Olive wants to spend her
Saturday nights in the lab.
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:She just wants to be with her mice, and
An is the one who keeps pulling her out.
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that, who is strong but, um,
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:But, you know, reading the
book, I remember thinking, "Is
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:Olive on the autism spectrum?"
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:I did
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:Nikki: Mh.
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:Meg: get that feeling from the movie
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:Nikki: No, I agree.
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:That, I don't, I don't
think that was there at all.
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does, and it's actually, like, right
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she's walking through Stanford, and
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everybody already feels comfortable.
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:This is why I had a business idea
that I called designated extroverted
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:friend, that you could go to a
party, and it's almost like hiring
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:an escort in a way of this person is
just gonna take you around to places.
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:They're the ones who are gonna, like, walk
up to a group and start talking, say, "By
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extroverted friend.
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:So I feel like that for Anne is great,
but I, I think sometimes when you have
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feel pushy and like you need to change,
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which I love because it let Olive be
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is sitting in the back of this classroom,
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of people talking to each other."
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:And Anne is like, "Oh, hey," like,
"you can't see anything from back here.
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:"Excuse me, women coming through.
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:I know, women in the class, who knew?
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:Look at you men everywhere."
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:And Olive is just, like,
going a- along with her.
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led in that way to contrast later than
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:when she, you know, says no to things
or when she calls Adam on his shit.
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:She gets to be all of these things,
which I, which I really enjoyed.
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bit more awkward though.
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more socially awkward Olive.
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:Meg: More socially awkward and
maybe even a little bit more clumsy.
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:And, and, um, you know, we saw that with
the contact lenses and the things falling
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of went away, and it was fine that it
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:went away, but it would have carried
a little bit farther as to like why
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and why this girl who is beautiful and
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:And it's not just being a
wallflower, and it's not just
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always necessarily know how
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:And they put that onto public
speaking, but they didn't put
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:that onto one-to-one engagement.
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:They did have a moment where, uh, Adam
says to her like, "How come you can talk
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:And she's like, "Because
you don't matter!"
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social awareness of, like, other people,
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me, and I know that I can't sway your
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:Nikki: Clumsiness, I, is such a hard
thing to show on camera without it
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get to see her not necessarily be
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:clumsy in that like, "Oh my God, I
fell over," like, "Ugh, what a girl."
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because again, it looks, it reads bad
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:Um, but I think it did let Olive,
like, maybe be more reactionary, not
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so that as she does these things and as
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:she makes the decisions, yeah, like, she
does have to deal with a little bit of
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:consequence to it, and they're not major,
but it's like, "Ooh, now I have to fix
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situations is extremely hard for Olive.
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hard balance, 'cause I don't want
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:her to be like that clumsy, "Oh,
me, I just tripped over air, and
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would hope, especially not in film.
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a, it was a pre- it was a pretty
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:Meg: Yeah, and I think she could
have been, like, more stumbling over
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:her words or struggling with how to
articulate things, but I do think that
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into her face that you didn't always
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with Olive in terms of how…
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:Uh, the one thing I did laugh though is
that there's a scene, I think it's right
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right before the kiss or right after.
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she's got her lab coat on.
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:Who wears shorts in a lab?
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:Nikki: pants and we wear
close-toed shoes in the lab.
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rules on how it works.
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:Dr.
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:Adam Carlton, played by Tom Bateman,
who I only know as an actor, he's in the
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which is, um, Poirot's, like, uh, friend.
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:Only thing I know him from when I
was going through his kind of IMDb,
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the tallest human in the world.
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difference is between the two, but
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I think that they did a really good job
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:of sticking to the character of, like,
everyone's attracted to him and everyone's
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of like has this bubble around him where
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that people ignore the fact that he's hot,
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:or they look at him and they know that
he's hot, but they also don't talk to him.
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Olive doesn't see him, so she
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:The first two times she interacts with
him, the first time is, you know, the
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is the water fountain scene, where
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somebody, and I don't know who it is.
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:And then, you know, she's
just like, "Okay, sorry, bye."
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:Um, and they start the Title
IX runner that they didn't
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:Nikki: I wish they had kept it.
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:That was a funny one.
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:Meg: Mm-hmm.
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:That was a good running…
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:That was a good runner,
and, like, her pumpkin spice
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that carried longer that didn't
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they were on the page, which I
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:Um, but Adam as a character, um, I
thought that they did an incredible
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:job with setting him up as aloof
so that he can be that, like, hard
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:I really enjoyed his performance
because I don't, I, I don't know
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:if I can describe this correctly.
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:He thought himself as better
than everyone, but he also
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:Like, it wasn't something
he had an ego about.
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:Like, I just go about my day like this.
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:I am vastly superior to all of you
because you guys are dumb fucks."
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:But, like, not in, like,
a mean, antagonistic way.
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:It was just like, "This is how it is."
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:Which I loved his lines
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:Meg: wasn't, it wasn't
arrogance, it was just a fact.
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:Arrogance would require a level
of pride and of like, "I am
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:better than you," but it wasn't.
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:It was just like, "Well, I would
never make that mistake, so how
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:could you have made that mistake?"
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:It was, it was competence, not arrogance,
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:Nikki: Mmm-hmm.
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:Meg: reads so differently of he can have
high expectations because he has already
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:met or exceeded his own expectations,
and therefore it's not expecting
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:people to do something unreasonable,
it is what he has already achieved
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:Nikki: and I, when we combine
that with the fact that he likes
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:to play ultimate Frisbee and
looks amazing without a shirt on.
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:Like, congratulations, Daisy
Ridley, who's married to Tom
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:Bateman . It's like, good job, girl.
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:Uh, beautiful creature.
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:Or the, like, his, he, the fact that
he's, like, pretty much always dressed in
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:all black, really leaning into this Dr.
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:Evil thing, but I look at that and
go, "No, he probably wears all black
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:because then he doesn't have to make
decisions about what to wear that day."
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:This is, like, a Steve Jobs thing.
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:It just so happens to play
into this idea of he is Dr.
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:Evil.
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:He is a ridiculously evil
human who fires people left and
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:right, who has no human empathy.
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:But we do get to see some, I
wish there had been more, of
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:how he changes through there.
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:Like, you do get the moments of him
checking in with her after the faculty
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:party that goes badly, and she's made
to speak in front of everyone, and
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:he kinda, like, checks in on her.
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:He does help her practice
her presentation later on.
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:While she's studying, he takes away
her super fru-fru drink and gives her
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:a green juice, and he brings, is it
Malcolm she's working with at the time?
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:Meg: Malcolm,
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:Nikki: him a coffee refill.
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:Like, he does, like, these
small things throughout.
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:You know, he g- he lets
her stay in the hotel room.
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:Like, he does all of these
cute things which I like.
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:I just wish it had been a little bit more
obvious, because this is where I'm gonna
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:bring in two of the changes from the
book, one of which I wish they had kept.
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:The other one, I don't mind that much.
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:Number one is he's been in love with
her the whole time was not necessarily
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:a factor in this story because we learn
in the book that pretty much from the
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:moment they meet in the bathroom when she
can't see him, he's been aware of her and
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:has kind of, like, kept an eye on her.
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:But it doesn't come up that he's
kind of been, like, low-key obsessed
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:with her since then, which I missed.
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:The second thing is Holden, which
I actually forgot about Holden's
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:character, um, so it didn't really
strike me while I was watching it that,
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:that, "Oh, there's this huge gap,"
but Holden was his best friend who…
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:Was it Malcolm was dating him?
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:Somebody was, somebody was dating him.
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:Um, and his role was kind of,
like, to, to use your words, soften
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:Adam, that he's not just a dick.
426
:He can maintain friendships because he
doesn't really have friends in this movie.
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:Like, he's got Tom, but Tom's,
doesn't live there, and obviously
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:Tom is evil, as we come to discover.
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:But those are…
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:How do you feel about those two things,
the he's been in love with her the
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:whole time and his best friend, Holden,
not being present in the adaptation?
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:Meg: I missed Holden.
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:I was relieved that he wasn't
in love with her the whole time.
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:So the one that you wanted to
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:Nikki: Mh mh.
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:Mh mh.
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:Meg: and letting him fall in love
with her over the course of the movie.
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:And the one that you're like, "Well,
I don't know if I needed Holden,"
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:that was what I missed, is Adam having
somebody to humanize him, to give
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:Nikki: Mmm-hmm.
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:Meg: beyond just, "Oh, we knew each other
at Harvard, and maybe we had the same
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:advisor, but we didn't actually come
out and say we had the same advisor."
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:Like, that was academic relationship,
but having Holden there with Malcolm, the
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:double date scene, you know, like, there
was so much that Holden did to, to not
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:only humanize Adam, but to give Adam more
depth to say like, "Oh, Tom's a dick."
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:You know, like, having a third
party say that before Tom shows
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:his cards was really helpful.
448
:Um, and it gave, you know…
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:In this version, in the, in the
adaptation, Olive never goes to
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:Adam's house, and that was where
Holden was sort of, like, bringing
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:her into the fold, you know?
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:And instead they did that scene
where, like, it was basically,
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:like, not a frat party, but it was a
grad student party where they built
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:Nikki: Rube Goldberg machine.
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:I love that scene
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:Meg: uh, where the…
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:It was really
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:Nikki: Non
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:Meg: to see Adam soften up to
the grad students as a postdoc,
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:but it didn't give Adam depth.
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:It just gave Olive more depth, and it
was a fun scene to see him with the,
462
:the lemonade, but like, it didn't
advance the plot in the way that a
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:Holden character would have advanced the
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:Nikki: Mmh.
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:Meg: to say, "Oh, you know, Adam
is a human outside of his role as a
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:professor and as a, a, an academic."
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:And that was never on…
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:There, he had nobody on the page
that didn't know him personally
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:Nikki: I, y- agreed.
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:I even think of, um, I loved him in
the drunk versus high science games.
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:I think my notes I wrote down,
"This is giving real theater
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:kid energy, but science kids."
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:'Cause if y'all have ever hung out
with theater kids, it's dangerous.
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:But I, so I love the scene where he's
kind of like, one of the, one of the
475
:women, I think she's on, like, Team
High, she's, like, literally staring
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:at a cupboard, and he's, like, watching
her, and then he, like, gives her a hint.
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:And she's like, "Yeah."
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:He's like, "No, stop helping them.
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:Citric acid."
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:Meg: Citric acid.
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:Sodium
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:Nikki: Or we get that, we get the,
the he's afraid of needles scene, when
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:it's, like, it's time for flu shots.
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:Like, we get that small moment,
but to your point, I don't think
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:any of that is sufficient enough.
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:Like, when I … When characters like
this fall in love, I always look and then
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:go, "Okay, I get why people love her.
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:But why does she love him?"
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:The, the movie I always think about
with this is Ever After: A Cinderella
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:Story with, uh, Drew Barrymore and
Dougray Scott as, um, the prince,
491
:the Prince of France or whatever.
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:I get why he loves Danielle,
Drew Barrymore's character,
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:'cause she's wonderful.
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:Why does she like him?
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:And that's w- I, I can
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:You know, suspension of
disbelief in a romantic movie,
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:I can do all day, every day.
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:But what is it about
Adam that Olive likes?
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:Yes, he's gorgeous.
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:Yes, he's helpful.
501
:Yes, he's kind of funny in a snarky way.
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:But what about him as a human
makes her go, "I do actually
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:wanna spend time with him"?
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:And it's not just, like, a
friendship of, "Yeah, you scratch
505
:my back, I'll scratch yours."
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:Like, this is, like, their
fake dating relationship.
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:What makes her fall in love?
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:I don't think there was
enough of him not being Dr.
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:Evil in a way that made sense watching it.
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:Like, the needle scene
by itself is not enough.
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:Engaging with her friends
is not quite enough.
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:So the more, the more we talk
about this, I'm like, "Yeah, that's
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:what we needed Holden for," to
be like, remind him he's a human.
514
:Remind everybody that, like, he,
he's not just who he is at work.
515
:'Cause even when they're
not at work, he's at work.
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:Meg: He doesn't have a social
life outside of work once you
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:lose the Holden character.
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:So he, he can't be anything
but a softened version of Dr.
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:Evil because he doesn't have a
role that isn't a that isn't an
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:Nikki: Mmh.
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:Meg: And even at the faculty
522
:Nikki: mmh.
523
:Meg: and even at the p- cocktail
party, the st- the things that are I
524
:would say, like, his events, doesn't
matter because he's still working.
525
:Nikki: Mmh mmh
526
:Meg: So how can you fall in
love with a person that you're
527
:only engaging with on campus?
528
:And they also missed … I just realized
they missed the scene where she has
529
:to sit on his lap at the lecture.
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:I love that scene
531
:Nikki: Oof.
532
:Okay, this is, I think this is a
good segue into talking about their
533
:fake dating relationship in general.
534
:We've talked about some of the elements.
535
:Oh my God, there are so many cringe
moments that, again, they, it makes
536
:sense for the storyline, but the
putting on sunblock and she leaves
537
:it looking like angel wings on it
was funny, but everything leading
538
:up to that was super cringe for me.
539
:Um, when, um, making her talk out,
uh, making her talk at the party, not
540
:necessarily him, but, like, everybody's
like, "Talk about your work," and
541
:everybody's, like, shooting her down.
542
:Like, oh my God, so cringe.
543
:I could not watch.
544
:There is one scene that I literally
l- was laughing so hard I had to pause
545
:the movie, and it is their coffee date.
546
:Couple things happened in this scene.
547
:Obviously, first coffee date, and it's
like she's getting the, the so-and-so
548
:with the sprinkles, and the this, and
the this, and the this, and the this.
549
:And they're sitting down, and they
have, like, the department secretary
550
:or something sh- taking photos, and
she's just pointing it out to Adam like,
551
:"Yeah, that, she's not taking a selfie.
552
:She's taking a photo of us."
553
:Um, and then her friend, An and
Malcolm come in, and they're
554
:like, "What the fuck is going…"
555
:'Cause they saw the photo that the
secretary posted on social media.
556
:But the thing that killed me is when
Adam leaves, there's a beat, and then
557
:An and Malcolm, like, throw themselves
down at the table, and I just, I lost it.
558
:I, that is what I would have done.
559
:I would have been like, "Coast is clear.
560
:We're good."
561
:What the?
562
:And thr- the, the, it's the
rattling noise, the noise of them.
563
:I, I fucking lost it, and then, uh,
Olive turns to them and goes, "You
564
:know what you did," or something
like that to the secretary.
565
:Like, "Good job, Janice,"
whatever her name was.
566
:I loved, I laughed so fucking
hard during that scene.
567
:Meg: And that scene where he
did the forehead kiss where he
568
:Nikki: Yeah.
569
:Meg: like didn't know where
570
:Nikki: Yeah
571
:Meg: with her and there's so
many cringe moments throughout
572
:the first like I would say the
573
:Nikki: Mmm-hmm
574
:Meg: of their fake dating where it's
like they go to hug and she, like even
575
:when she's leaving his, um, office
for the first time and he holds the
576
:door open and she like goes for a hug
and then backs off and like all of
577
:the physical humor of the awkward,
cringey, two socially awkward people
578
:trying to navigate a fake relationship.
579
:But then in that moment where he knows
her friends are watching, and it's
580
:the first time that he really knows
her friends are watching, engages with
581
:it, and then he goes for the forehead
kiss after like a very awkward moment.
582
:Whereas later when he knows our
friends are, her friends are
583
:watching, he uses it to his benefit
to get a real kiss in there.
584
:Mm
585
:Nikki: Yes, he does.
586
:I, and I love that they kept, like, that
negotiation aspect of their relationship.
587
:Um, in, I don't remember how it happens
in the book, but in this one he calls
588
:her out of a lecture to come to his
office, and it was like, "Hello.
589
:We are about to have a conversation.
590
:We're gonna do, we're gonna do this.
591
:These are the parameters."
592
:And she's like, "What
is happening right now?"
593
:But then very quickly kinda
gets on board with it.
594
:I didn't think her desi- like,
her driving force to, to do
595
:this was quite strong enough.
596
:I know she was doing it for An and Jeremy,
and I know they kind of changed in the
597
:adaptation the An Jeremy why she's doing
this thing, which I, I don't really care.
598
:The way it was in the film is fine.
599
:I don't think it was that big of a
deal that they changed the, the MO
600
:behind the start of the relationship.
601
:But I love that he's, like, sitting
behind his desk like, "Thank
602
:you for coming to this meeting.
603
:Our agenda for today is this," and
is like, "Here are the boundaries."
604
:I love that they kept, like,
that negotiation aspect of it
605
:in it, which I really enjoyed.
606
:It was very funny
607
:Meg: that was the first part
of our faking it framework too.
608
:We
609
:Nikki: Mmm-hmm
610
:Meg: to build the faking it framework
of, like, if the, the premise and the…
611
:And so the A of faking it is agreement.
612
:Like, if they don't have a strong
agreement, the entire thing falls apart.
613
:And Ali Hazelwood nailed this part
of, like, we end on October 29th and
614
:this is how many weeks we have, and
then they don't go through and do the
615
:backstory or any of that stuff, so
they have the awkward moments later.
616
:But that agreement of this is how it
benefits you, this is how it benefits me,
617
:it has to be reciprocal, um, and we have
to come to some sort of verbal or very
618
:rarely contractual written agreement.
619
:Um, but there is that contract
that's happening of here's how
620
:you benefit, here's how I benefit.
621
:You know, we're not having sex.
622
:We're gonna see each other
on campus this many times.
623
:You know, are you coming
to this faculty event?
624
:And then it…
625
:the, the lines start to blur slowly,
which I love the way that they do that.
626
:Uh, but starting from that
very stiff, very, like, sitting
627
:across the desk from each other.
628
:Adam's posture is perfectly upright.
629
:His hands are gripping
the sides of his chair.
630
:He's just so, like, controlled in
that moment, and we talked earlier
631
:about how in our book analysis, the
question that we asked each other
632
:was, like, is Olive coded autistic?
633
:But in that moment where Adam is
sitting there negotiating, I went,
634
:"Oh, are they coding Adam here?"
635
:'Cause I didn't read Adam
as autistic in the book.
636
:Nikki: Mmh.
637
:Meg: calculating.
638
:I didn't see him as autistic.
639
:But once I saw him on screen,
I was like, "Oh, maybe he is."
640
:And actually, that was a question
that people were googling,
641
:that our book analysis showed
up for is, is Adam autistic?
642
:They didn't ask about Olive at all, and so
643
:Nikki: Yeah
644
:Meg: a really interesting shift
and especially, you know, with
645
:the person who is, is playing…
646
:with, with Lily as the producer and the
primary actress and wanting and making
647
:those shifts to make Olive a bit more, uh,
I don't wanna say strong, but a bit more
648
:of a, like, protagonist you can cheer for.
649
:You had to have Adam then become more
aloof and awkward, and he was already
650
:aloof and awkward to begin with.
651
:Um, so that was an interesting
choice too, is to…
652
:especially in that particular scene
of him not being able to read the room
653
:sometimes at first, Olive having to just
soften him through her own, like, grumpy
654
:sunshine vibes, but also say to him, like,
"Maybe you could give people a second
655
:Nikki: Maybe
656
:Meg: Maybe you could talk to
them a little bit differently.
657
:Maybe you don't have to make people cry.
658
:Maybe if you make them cry, it's a
sign that you're doing it wrong."
659
:Nikki: And I, that's, I think that was,
those were good demonstrations of why
660
:she starts to like him a little bit more.
661
:Again, I, I, I wanted more of it, but
think about when, I think it's right
662
:before the faculty party, and he goes to
her house to pick her up, and, uh, one of
663
:the women there is, like, a grad student
that he fired, and or ma- he, he made her
664
:do something over again, and she's like,
she missed seeing her dog before she died.
665
:And we get a callback to that moment
later where he's sitting with this
666
:person at a coffee shop, and she's
just going through photos of her
667
:dog, and she's just like, "Mm-hmm.
668
:Yes.
669
:Mm-hmm.
670
:Dog."
671
:Like, that is really funny to
me, that he's ma- doing that.
672
:Or at the end, when he has a
grad student in his office crying
673
:because she fucked up, and he said,
"Okay, next time don't do this."
674
:And she kinda goes, "Next time?
675
:I'm not getting fired."
676
:And then she starts sobbing, and then he's
like, "Oh my God, why am I doing this?"
677
:Like, I'm do- this is the what I…
678
:This is nicer, but holy shit, I
have to deal with so many more
679
:emotions when I'm being nice.
680
:And I, I loved those changes.
681
:Um, or even when she is speaking
at the event, and she makes a
682
:comment early on that like, "Oh,
thank God my presentation's at the
683
:same time as the keynote," uh, so
that means, like, nobody's gonna
684
:come to mine, which is great.
685
:Small audience.
686
:Of course, we find out later he is
the keynote, but he shows up to catch
687
:the end of her talk, and she sees his
badge and goes, "You were the keynote.
688
:How did you get here?"
689
:He goes, "I talked fast."
690
:Like, to get here, and I just look at
that, I'm like, okay, I see, I see you are
691
:giving me evidence of why she likes him.
692
:I can see why she would wanna fuck him.
693
:But loving him, this is the right track.
694
:It needed more.
695
:This needed to be longer, but you,
you have limited screen space.
696
:You need cuts.
697
:That's why we see, um, the two of them
sitting on a bench, and they kind of,
698
:like, cuddle, and they wave to, uh,
the guy who has to give Adam money,
699
:and then she's like, "Okay, thank you.
700
:Bye," and, like, leaves to show
that they were just doing…
701
:I wa- I, I always want more.
702
:I always want more of this.
703
:Meg: Yeah.
704
:Nikki: We have limited real estate.
705
:Meg: more of them at the,
the sushi restaurant in
706
:Nikki: Mhm
707
:Meg: where there're actually just
the two of them talking to each other
708
:uninterrupted, and he's making fun of
her sushi choices because she loves
709
:that, like, that the food is coming
out and ca- on the little, like,
710
:trains, and I fucking love that, too.
711
:I love that.
712
:You know?
713
:But, like, the grumpy sunshine of
it all works, but also, you know,
714
:I, I agree with you that we could
have had a little bit more of Adam
715
:backing her up, Adam supporting her.
716
:Not just giving her coffee, not just,
like, doing the, like, homeostasis
717
:relationship work of, like, you know,
"Okay, I'll make sure that you're going
718
:to bed and sleeping," or whatever,
but, like, really to her and getting
719
:to know her and supporting her,
not just her presentation skills.
720
:Um, it came across in the sex
721
:Nikki: Yeah
722
:Meg: where he's like, "I don't
want you to regret this."
723
:There was a
724
:Nikki: Mmm-hmm
725
:Meg: but I think there could've been so
much more reason to fall in love with
726
:Adam and not just to, like, like him
727
:Nikki: that's always hard when you have
to show, like, passage of time, and you
728
:can't have too many moments that are just
showing them how they are because then
729
:the plot and the film loses propulsion.
730
:It loses forward momentum when you
linger too much in just showing here's
731
:them being cute, here's them being nice.
732
:So it's definitely a
challenge to display that.
733
:Um, you know, I, I, I
always, I always want more.
734
:Meg: work
735
:Nikki: Yeah.
736
:Meg: where you get Adam as a kid, you
get the stories of Adam growing up, you
737
:understand why Adam is the way that he
is, which you get a little bit in the
738
:sushi restaurant scene, but not enough.
739
:You don't get enough of Adam sort of loose
740
:Nikki: Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
741
:I do love, um, kind of g- going in for
the, the end of the movie when we have
742
:a lot of stuff starting to happen.
743
:Um, I love that they played with the only
one bed trope because … And then later
744
:when, um, Olive confesses to Anh this
whole thing was fake, that she uses the
745
:term fake dating, and I kind of just made
a note of, yes, because these characters
746
:ostensibly live in the real world,
they know what romantic comedies are.
747
:They know what romance tropes are.
748
:So the fact that Olive was like, "Oh, my
God, this is gonna turn into an only one
749
:bed situation," or, "We were fake dating,"
like, using that term specifically I
750
:thought really … was, was really fun.
751
:And Adam going, "No, I booked a double.
752
:Like, there will be two beds."
753
:And she's like, "No, no, no, no.
754
:You do not … S- a pipe is gonna burst.
755
:Something's gonna happen.
756
:There's only gonna be one bed."
757
:And then she walks in,
she goes, "There's two."
758
:Meg: And in, during the agreement
scene, she says, "So we're fake dating?"
759
:Like, she
760
:Nikki: Mm-hmm.
761
:Meg: trope, which I really love,
because he's the one laying out all
762
:of the contractual agreements, and
here's when it ends, and here's how
763
:often we're gonna see each other.
764
:And she's like, "So this is fake dating?"
765
:Like, she names the trope, which I love
766
:Nikki: Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
767
:Okay, I wanna talk about
768
:Meg: we talk about Tom?
769
:Nikki: I was like, we
need to talk about Tom.
770
:Not only Tom and the fact that he's
an evil, horrific being who does not
771
:deserve happiness, but also this is the
thing I didn't like that they changed.
772
:Okay, t- t- tell me your thoughts
773
:Meg: The reason that I thought the book
worked really well, especially for what
774
:we know about Olive, is that she, in the
book, she was recording her presentation
775
:to send it back to her advisor, Dr.
776
:Aslan, who is a named character, and
they easily could have done this.
777
:And then she gets the recording of
Tom sexually harassing or assaulting
778
:Nikki: Mmh.
779
:Meg: Well, I guess not just harassing,
but, like, making this contract clear.
780
:It's recorded.
781
:And Olive, being Olive, and being
not a doormat necessarily, but not
782
:somebody who, um, who is big on conflict
resolution or, or facing conflict, she
783
:has the, the audio recording of the
sexual harassment happening, and then An
784
:hears it, and Malcolm hears it, and…
785
:Or maybe it was Jeremy.
786
:I can't remember, but one of the guys.
787
:And they're the ones who are like,
"You have to take this to Adam.
788
:You have to take it to the dean.
789
:You have to do something about this."
790
:And there's evidence.
791
:Nikki: Yeah
792
:Meg: The way that they change it in
the, the adaptation, and I do think
793
:that there's a benefit to this,
is that it then becomes Olive's
794
:word against Tom's, and there's no
evidence of him actually saying this.
795
:And the problem then just becomes,
well, Adam believes Olive, and
796
:therefore Tom's career is ruined,
but there's no evidence of it.
797
:And the benefit of that is that Olive
then doesn't rely on anybody else.
798
:She goes directly to Dr.
799
:Aslan and says, "I need to find
another source of funding."
800
:But they set up the other source
of funding with the two named
801
:characters who came up on the stage
and said, "We loved your work.
802
:I'm from Yale.
803
:He's from," I don't know, "Dartmouth,"
804
:Nikki: Mh.
805
:Meg: Like, they set up the opportunity to
make the reason in the book work, and then
806
:they just, like, dropped that scene out of
it and did it in the hotel room instead,
807
:which, like, what kind of advisor goes
to somebody's hotel room to begin with?
808
:- I think the entire reason for the change
was then they have time where Adam
809
:is distant because Tom has told Adam,
"I'm going to offer her this position.
810
:She can't be, like, stuck in this
relationship with somebody in California."
811
:So T- so Adam goes distant
'cause he thinks he's trying to
812
:Nikki: Yeah, 'cause,
813
:Meg: quote,
814
:Nikki: Tom says to him,
"I need her full focus."
815
:Meg: Yeah.
816
:And I just think that it was a weak
decision, that the book did it better,
817
:and having the, the audio recorded
evidence of malfeasance or misconduct
818
:made Olive's case stronger, and she
could have then brought that to…
819
:She could have still
been the main character.
820
:She could have still
taken that tape to Dr.
821
:Aslan or somebody else and said, "Here's
why I need the alternative funding.
822
:Here's why I need something else.
823
:Here's why I can't work in Tom's lab."
824
:But they just sort of like sidestepped
that, and instead they just had her
825
:like, "Oh, I heard people talking about
me in the bathroom," and then I have
826
:no evidence of this sexual harassment,
and everyone has to go based on the
827
:word of an, a, a grad student instead
of a post-doc, and that's not how
828
:Nikki: Yeah, th- that's, I- it was also
just, like, the whole setup for the event.
829
:In the book, Olive gets that speaking gig.
830
:She gets it.
831
:It's not because of Tom,
it's not because of Adam.
832
:She already has this, she's already
been given this speaking spot.
833
:And then, you know, she goes, she does it.
834
:The f- here's the thing, y'all.
835
:We live in the real world as women,
and I saw a lot of people saying,
836
:"No, it was actually really good
that all Olive had to do was…"
837
:And it really wasn't her.
838
:An.
839
:She told An, An told Adam what
had happened, and Adam just
840
:believes her and goes after Tom.
841
:Y- that's nice.
842
:Believe women.
843
:We also live in the real world where we
know nothing will fucking happen to Tom.
844
:Adam's like, "I'm gonna ruin you."
845
:Well, we haven't seen that Adam has any
pull outside, it, we have, bec- maybe
846
:it's because we don't have Holden,
but he doesn't have friendships.
847
:I, how is Adam gonna ruin Tom?
848
:How?
849
:How is he going to do it?
850
:What is gonna happen when
it's Olive's word and that's
851
:it, and there's no evidence?
852
:Nothing's fucking going to happen.
853
:That is how this works.
854
:So I understand they were like,
"Oh, you know, he believes her."
855
:I'm like, "Yeah, and
nobody's gonna give a shit."
856
:Like, this is not going to work.
857
:We need evidence.
858
:We need irrefutable evidence.
859
:And then honestly, probably some
shit's still not gonna happen.
860
:Are you up on the news right now, Cornell?
861
:Like, it's just, mm
862
:Meg: meanwhile, I'm like, it- when
Tom's in her hotel room, I'm like, "Let
863
:her have her phone on and have Adam
864
:Nikki: Something
865
:Meg: when, uh, there's a
moment where Olive goes to An,
866
:and this pissed me off too.
867
:Olive goes to An and says, "I
was sexually harassed by Tom.
868
:I can't be there."
869
:And b- right before that,
they kick out whatever the
870
:Nikki: the, the little running
joke, just shut up, dude.
871
:I remember his name, man
872
:Meg: Yeah, exactly.
873
:They kick him out, and he goes, "You can't
874
:Nikki: McConnell?
875
:Meg: I'm in the middle
of recording my data."
876
:And I was like, please
let him be recording this.
877
:Like, that could have been some
sort of, like, secondhand, even if
878
:it's not, you know, it would still
be Olive's word and Olive's thing.
879
:But then An just goes like,
"Oh, you're my best friend.
880
:I knew you were lying."
881
:Like, and just for probably two minutes
they talk about that instead of like,
882
:"Hi, you were sexually harassed by a
superior, and you, like, don't have
883
:a place to work, and now we're just
gonna talk about how I knew, and
884
:you guys were awkward, and it was
885
:Nikki: Yeah.
886
:Meg: And I was like, this
887
:Nikki: Who also, who also threatened
to steal her methodologies, and
888
:her frameworks, and her research.
889
:Um, so like this is
ruinous for, for Olive.
890
:So I didn't, I didn't love that, how
they set it up, because o- one, I don't
891
:believe anything would happen to Tom.
892
:Two, the other change that they
made is the reason that Olive
893
:had to go find funding is Dr.
894
:Aslan's retiring, so
she was not an option.
895
:So for her to just go back to Dr.
896
:Aslan, I'm like, "Why wouldn't
you have gone there first?"
897
:Like, I know you're at,
you're already at Stanford.
898
:Like, I know you needed more money
and things, but j- it's, isn't it
899
:like your safety school in a way?
900
:Like, wouldn't you have put in an
application with her regardless of if you
901
:wanted to go to Harvard or, or wherever?
902
:I don't know.
903
:I, I didn't love this.
904
:B- and all it really gave the opportunity
was for Adam to go after Tom and have
905
:that, "If you t- go near her, I'll fucking
kill you," and I was like, "Who cares?"
906
:Like that, uh … And then they
immediately reconcile outside of
907
:that when, because people in the
classroom start live streaming this,
908
:but they didn't catch any of what the
accusation was, so still people don't
909
:know that Tom is, uh, is the devil.
910
:Um, they just see Adam going off on
Tom, and they're like, "Ooh, look at Dr.
911
:Evil."
912
:But they don't know why, 'cause
he doesn't say any of that.
913
:He just says like, "I, Olive told me,"
or, "I heard what you did to Olive,"
914
:and then people start recording, so
none of that is caught on camera.
915
:The, the, the student body widely
doesn't know, but then Olive shows up
916
:at the end in the hallway, and that's
their big reconciliation moment.
917
:It just f- it felt really flat.
918
:Like this section either made me
angry or it felt flat, and then
919
:same thing with the flash forward.
920
:It just kind of like, it felt like
we were building towards something,
921
:and then it just kinda went
922
:It really petered out.
923
:Meg: petered out.
924
:Nikki: Yeah.
925
:Meg: And it
926
:Nikki: I, okay
927
:Meg: to peter out, I would say,
like, th- after the sushi scene.
928
:Nikki: Yeah, and like,
929
:Meg: sort of
930
:Nikki: y-
931
:Meg: lost its momentum
932
:Nikki: yeah, and I don't love that,
like, An was the one that told Adam,
933
:and she's like, "And, and, and,
and Olive told me not to tell you."
934
:Um, the reconciliation is too quick.
935
:Um, and it, I, she didn't even tell Dr.
936
:Aslan.
937
:Like, I know Dr.
938
:Aslan has a line of like, w- uh, "We
have to be perfect, we have to do much,"
939
:but it's like, why didn't she tell Dr.
940
:Aslan and get Dr.
941
:Aslan on her side?
942
:Like, I don't know.
943
:The, how this was handled, I just don't
have trust in the system, again, have
944
:you seen what's happening at Cornell?
945
:Um, that any of this would be
handled correctly, that there
946
:would be any consequences for Tom.
947
:Um, like, good for her,
she stays at Stanford.
948
:She, you know, we flash-forward to,
I think it's two years later, where
949
:she has her doctorate, and she's
teaching, and An is teaching, and
950
:she and Adam are still together.
951
:Like, it's cute, that little moment
of, like, they're, they touch each
952
:other's hands as they walk by.
953
:But it's like, Tom needed consequences.
954
:Fuck Tom.
955
:Meg: Yeah.
956
:Yeah.
957
:They didn't ha- they didn't ever
address like, "Oh, I'm so glad you
958
:never went to Harvard 'cause that
lab got shut down once Tom was…"
959
:Once…
960
:And here's the…
961
:This could've been once other people
came forward and said that that same
962
:Nikki: Yeah
963
:Meg: could've been a one-sentence
thing off the page that just like,
964
:"I'm so glad that you're here
at Stanford because Harvard was
965
:caught in that terrible, uh, you
966
:Nikki: Sex scandal and like
to- uh, yeah, something.
967
:Something.
968
:Yeah, that would've been
a good way to do it.
969
:Meg: But there
970
:Nikki: Mm-hmm.
971
:Meg: There was no conclusion to that.
972
:It was just like, "Well, Adam and Tom
aren't friends anymore, and now Olive
973
:Nikki: Mh.
974
:Meg: and she finished,
and everything's great."
975
:Um, and we don't know if
her research worked, or we
976
:don't, we don't know anything.
977
:We have no conclusion except,
"Oh, they said I love you,
978
:so now everything's fine."
979
:Nikki: Yeah, 'cause really from
980
:Meg: like, five more minutes.
981
:I…
982
:And I think that the, the I love you
confession, I think they were trying
983
:to do something about, like, oh, this
is a tier one mistake or a tier two
984
:mistake, but that language had not been
introduced at any point before that.
985
:Like, even if, even if, um, Adam had said
during that scene with the person who
986
:messed up and put Mountain Dew on their
slides, he was like, "That was a tier
987
:one mistake," he could have, like, he
could have dropped the language earlier
988
:so that way later on when they pick
it up, it's not completely brand-new
989
:territory that they're covering.
990
:Because now they're just like, "Oh,
we're cute, awkward scientists talking
991
:in science terminology to each other when
we're trying to say I love you," but,
992
:like, there was nothing underneath that
993
:Nikki: From Olive's perspective, they
had sex, she fell asleep, she woke
994
:up, he was gone, and there was hearts
made out of M&M's next to her, and
995
:then he never talked to her again.
996
:And then she immediately got
sexual har- uh, sexually harassed
997
:by, by Tom, and threatened, um,
with essentially sexual violence.
998
:Um, not a great thing
from her perspective.
999
:Um, and I know she sees him
afterwards, he goes, "Congratulations.
::
I heard it went well.
::
It's, I got my grant money today.
::
Thank you so much."
::
And
::
why are we forgiving him
for any of this shit?
::
Yeah.
::
Like again, you know, I love the movie.
::
This aspect of it, it didn't
completely turn me off from the
::
film, but when I stopped to think
about it, it really bothered me.
::
Meg: the solution was in the source
material, they chose that moment to
::
diverge, and that's where it fell apart
::
Nikki: Mm-hmm.,
::
There's just a couple other
moments that I had in my notes
::
that I thought were really fun.
::
How he picked her up coming back from
the sushi restaurant, like that one
::
arm swoop up and carry, oh, yes please.
::
I looked it up.
::
There, there's, there's on paper, 'cause
you know people fudge their height
::
a little bit, there's an eight-inch
height difference between the two.
::
It feels bigger than eight inches.
::
Mm-mm-mm-mm.
::
Uh, but that, that one, that
one arm swoop, I loved it.
::
Um, I-
::
Meg: I, I, that looks, felt about right.
::
Eight in- like, that's what
Ben and I have is, is eight
::
Nikki: Can he do a one-arm swoop on you?
::
Meg: 6'4".
::
No, but I'm also a bigger person than,
::
Nikki: Ben, get working on it.
::
Uh, flex those biceps.
::
Uh, I didn't love that Adam got the
mediocre white man line where Dr.
::
Aslan had that in the original,
but it was still kind of funny.
::
I, I wish the, her realizing it
was him in the bathroom had, like,
::
a little bit more oomph behind it.
::
Um, but this, it doesn't work
then if you don't have the he was
::
in love with her the whole time.
::
Meg: No, I would say the, the bathroom
scene, I was annoyed in the book
::
that it had as much weight as it did,
'cause I didn't think it was really
::
all that exciting or important.
::
I didn't think that it was as big of
a, like, formative moment in their
::
relationship as the book made it seem.
::
So I didn't mind that it came out
earlier and she was just like, "Oh,
::
you believed in me this whole time."
::
That was the entire point of
::
Nikki: Yeah, and if they don't have the
he's been in love with her the whole time,
::
then you don't really need that scene.
::
Um, and then, , I didn't like Malcolm.
::
He was a real dick in this movie.
::
I feel like they made him more
of, like a, like a, an antagonist
::
for the, up until we meet Tom.
::
Not a fan of how Malcolm was written.
::
He was a dick and he was mean.
::
He was mean to Olive.
::
Meg: Mhm
::
Nikki: thing is he's the one that
specifically says the word demisexual
::
early on in the film, and everybody's
like, "Oh, they actually said the
::
word demi, like, groundbreaking."
::
I was like, meh, it felt
awkward and tacked on, and
::
also way too early in the film.
::
Meg: Mhm
::
Nikki: yeah, I think that's, I
think that's the rest of my list
::
Meg: And I think part of the reason
that Malcolm didn't come across as
::
warm or likable in this adaptation as
he does in the book is missing Holden
::
Nikki: true.
::
We just see him as like a fuckboy
::
Meg: a and we were able to see that
tension of, oh, the, you know, my roommate
::
is dating my, dissertation advisor, and my
boyfriend is friends with my dissertation
::
advisor, and I don't like him, but I
like them, so I'll put up with him,
::
you kinda got more from Malcolm out of
::
Nikki: Mmm-hmm.
::
Meg: versus the adaptation version
is just like, "Well, I like to
::
party 'cause I don't really wanna be
::
Nikki: Yeah
::
Meg: your boyfriend's mean to
me, and you should have made
::
him stop being mean to me."
::
And he's just sort of like the,
promiscuous gay character versus,
::
like, having a relationship that
he can be in where you can see him
::
engaging with somebody who isn't Olive
::
Nikki: Agreed.
::
Agreed.
::
Overall, I'm a fan.
::
I would watch it again
::
Meg: So Nikki, what do you ship the
most about The Love Hypothesis movie?
::
Nikki: It's the casting of
Lili Reinhart and Tom Bateman.
::
I think they both did a fantastic job.
::
I felt like they were really good
representations of the characters.
::
I thought they had n- really
nice on-screen chemistry that was
::
both grounded and a little silly.
::
This is fake dating.
::
It's gotta be a little silly.
::
Um, and it's funny when you think about
the Daisy Ridley-Tom Bateman connection.
::
For those of you who don't know or haven't
listened to the book, Love Hypothesis
::
started as Reylo, Rey and Kylo Ren fanfic.
::
Tom Bateman, who plays Adam,
is married to Daisy Ridley, who
::
is the actress who played Rey.
::
Um, and they maintain they had no
idea about it, and Lili Reinhart
::
has said, "Yeah, no, Daisy and
Tom had no idea this was a thing.
::
It's just chance."
::
Uh, but yeah, I'd say Lili
Reinhart and, um, Tom Bateman.
::
I really enjoyed the two of them.
::
What about you?
::
What did you ship the most?
::
Meg: I think I shipped
the character of Anh
::
Nikki: Hmm.
::
Meg: this whole thing wouldn't
work if she weren't so likable.
::
Like, Olive wanting Anh to be happy
and wanting to sort of, I don't wanna
::
say self-sacrifice 'cause that's not
it, but Olive subverting her own needs
::
in order to make Anh happy because
Anh had been the best friend that
::
she could imagine and she, you know,
that whole thing wouldn't have worked
::
if Anh weren't a great character.
::
And also just the actress who
played her was so perfect.
::
played everything so well where it
was, you know, the moments where she
::
had to be warm and friendly and best
friendy she could, but then there were
::
also the moments where she was, like,
pushing them towards the cringe 'cause
::
you, you knew as the watcher, even if
you hadn't read the book, that Anh knew
::
what was going on or else she wouldn't
have been like, "Ooh, sunscreen.
::
Your hot dog's gone.
::
You got, you gotta just
put on the sunscreen.
::
Go touch him.
::
Go touch him."
::
You know, like, Anh.
::
And then the protectiveness near the end
of it where Anh is the one who's, like,
::
going to Adam, even if I didn't agree
with that screenplay choice, the character
::
had a, an edge to her that I really
loved, and that actress, which I'm sure
::
you named her at some point in this and
I feel like an asshole for not knowing
::
Nikki: Rachel Marsh.
::
Meg: She was just incredible.
::
Nikki: Yeah, I agree.
::
I agree.
::
She was great.
::
Amazing.
::
All right, well, before we get into
the final question of what we are
::
shipping this week, a gentle reminder,
you know the number one thing you
::
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::
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::
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::
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::
somebody at the cafeteria lunch table.
::
And what is podcasting if not
finding people to sit with you
::
at the cafeteria lunch table?
::
Uh, Meg, checking back in.
::
It's been a couple months.
::
What are you shipping this week?
::
Meg: Well, that's the problem.
::
It's been a couple months, and I
can't remember where I left off
::
in the books that I've read, and
I've read so many fucking books.
::
Okay, so I'm just going off the top of my
head, which is that, uh, there's a book
::
that you shipped, like a year ago, that
I finally got around to reading, and it
::
blew my mind, so it's a double shipper.
::
Nikki: Hit it
::
Meg: And I'm going to, uh, give you
some hints and see if you can figure out
::
Nikki: Oh, God.
::
Okay
::
Meg: childhood best friends to
::
Nikki: Mm-hmm.
::
Meg: bi awakening,
::
Nikki: I'm just not narrowing it down.
::
Meg: on vacation.
::
Bi awakening.
::
I know.
::
I'm, like,
::
Nikki: Honeymoon For One, Keira Andrews
::
, Meg: Plane crash
::
Nikki: Oh, oh, Briar Prescott.
::
The, the, uh, the Island.
::
Meg: by Maria
::
Nikki: Oh my God, stressful
fucking movie, or stressful fucking
::
book, but a great fucking book
::
Meg: Oh my God, it destroyed
::
Nikki: God
::
Meg: So I just, sidebar to everyone who,
I mean, I, you're probably not looking at
::
our website regularly even though I am, I
::
Nikki: Mmm-hmm
::
Meg: building out these templates for,
um, different books that we've read and
::
appreciated, and one of the things that
I did was give a scale from like this
::
is marshmallows, this is no angst, up to
like this is going to send you to therapy.
::
Nikki: Mmh.
::
Meg: The Island by Bryon
Prescott is like therapy fodder.
::
It
::
Nikki: Oh my God, yeah.
::
I needed a moment
::
Meg: is, oh my, it is so emotional , i
don't wanna give away too much, but the
::
entire thing is one of the most gorgeous,
and I understand why Nikki recommended it
::
because it's so much pining and so much
yearning the way that a childhood best
::
friends to lovers by awakening can be.
::
Um, it's just structurally perfect.
::
It's an amazing book.
::
Go check out The Island by Briar Prescott.
::
Double ship.
::
Double
::
Nikki: Yeah, and definitely
have, like, a recovery piece
::
planned for after reading that.
::
You are gonna need the
schmoopiest, frothiest,
::
Meg: Like
::
Nikki: oh my God, uh
::
Meg: like a cozy novella for right
afterwards so that way you can
::
just like get the tears out of your
system somehow because ooh, is it a
::
Nikki: Yeah, it really is
::
Meg: Nikki,
::
Nikki: Oh my gosh, I had to go back
through my list, and I was like,
::
"Which one do I wanna start with?"
::
I'm gonna say,
::
Meg: it's
::
Nikki: I'm gonna say, I'm gonna
pick Tracking Wolf by Lucy Lennox,
::
which is the latest book in
the Maid Marian Legacy series.
::
It is a dad's best friend to
lovers, y- yearning, pining.
::
Wolf has grown up being the son
of Jude from Dune the Sands, and
::
like, it, you know, big musician,
and you find out that he has, uh…
::
Okay, g- spoilers for the book.
::
Um, you find out he's actually a
Grammy-winning songwriter, and nobody
::
in his family knows, 'cause he's
doing it under an alias, and he's
::
trying to keep this for himself.
::
But he's also been in love with
his, um, the bodyguard dad's, like,
::
best friend who works at the agency
with him sometimes, named Trace.
::
He's been in love with
him his entire childhood.
::
They kiss at some point once Wolf is,
like, 18 or 19, and Trace is like, "This
::
will never happen," um, and a bunch of
other stuff happens that essentially
::
what happens is Wolf says, "I'm out."
::
So he goes on, like, a
road trip, essentially.
::
He gets, like, an RV, and he doesn't
tell anybody where he's going, and
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his parents obviously get worried,
so they send Trace after him.
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So Trace has to, like, literally track
him down across the United States,
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and drama, drama, drama and it's about
how do they kind of get together.
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So again, yearning and pining, which is
my bread and butter, um, and, uh, you
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know, age gap, secret identity, road
trip romance, a little bit of danger,
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a little bit of suspense on the way.
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10 out of 10 recommend.
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Uh, Tracking Wolf, Lucy Lennox,
Maid Marian Legacy, book four.
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Meg: Is Maid Marian, Marian
Legacy the, like, generation after
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the Maid Marian group finishes?
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Nikki: It's their kids.
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Yep.
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It's all their kids.
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Meg: it
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Nikki: Uh, beautiful, and
that is it for us this week.
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